MMF simulation play.

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  1. bjg48723

    bjg48723 New Member

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    Me and the wife have been married for a while now and about 2 years ago after her sucking on my fingers during sex she asked me if I liked it. I told her yes and when she asked why I told her that I think of her sucking another man's cock while I'm fucking her. Now knowing how much more into the sex she would get when she sucks on my fingers (not to mention that she would do it on her own once she realized that they are close enough to) I asked if she liked it. Her response was that it didn't do anything for her and that she only wanted my cock and will never take another as long as were married no matter what. Well as time went by I would slip her dildo in her mouth Instead of my fingers and she would go to town on it. Much more even then when she would give me a bj and her orgasams were more intense especially when I would talk to her about what she was doing. She would still give me the hole dose nothing for her and she doesn't like even thinking of another cock.as more time went by I would get her to tell me stories about her getting gangbanged witch yet again her body screamed yes to but she would deny she liked. Then I started to use the dildo on her during 69 and every time I would she would give me the best bjs I ever get not too mench how hard she will cum and squirt. So instead of asking her again if she liked the idea of it (this is about a month ago) I told her how I no she likes it and how much I like the way she gets excited and I told her I just want her to be honest with herself and if possible me to. So we talked about it she admitted to liking the feeling of multiple cocks but dosent want to actually do it because she only wants mine. So I bought a penis gag only been able to use it while she jerked me off but she kept giving me the inisent look of plesur when I asked her if she liked it in her mouth while I was in her hands to witch I got a grinning yes from. After it was all said and done I asked her why she wouldn't admit that she likes the feeling of multiple cocks. She told me that it was because she thought I would leave her. So to get down to it im ask for both advice and ideas to incorporate toy's into our sex life.
     
  2. MrMrsBiggerblast96

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    Sounds like you have done a good job easing into it so far, but I'd always urge caution in order to make sure she is comfortable with any situation you two are in.

    Keep talking about it and using toys the way you are. Talk to her about how hot it is while she is doing it. Reassure her that you wouldn't leave her if you two decided to try bringing another man in. But just make sure that you both really are ok with it before you do .

    -Mrs. B
     
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  3. Joys

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    We had been discussing with my wife about her being shared with another guy even before I bought her first toy. She knows that I imagine this all the time she uses her toys. She likes the idea and gets turned on but like yours, she always says she doesn't want to actually do it because she only wants mine (just a few times she told she could try it maybe in given circumstances). Not because of fear of me leaving her but more from moral restrictions I believe. But I do keep my hopes up for sharing her with other(s) or watch her with another guy or perhaps another couple
     
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    Unless she asks for it I'm just fine with the fantasy of it. Just running out of different ways to simulate it just to switch things up when the mood stricks.
     
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    If she's into watching porn, watch some 3some vids together preferably amateur(ish) ones. If you can get her to cam, cam with single guys...

    Hey, who am I to give advice!!! Done all that but still here with just the fantasy:oops:
     
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    She'll watch it if I ask but she could care less about porn. And don't really want the threesome just having the fantasy is enuf for us
     
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    I've had the fantasy for years. She used to get hurt that I thought about that, but has slowly come around to have the discussion. We have slowly worked this into our lovemaking and it drives her wild. We have used several different sized toys, going back and forth, giving her the feeling of being with multiple guys. I'll use one on her while she is going down on me. Now it is to the point that she actually says if another guy were here, she would do it. It will probably always remain a fantasy, but it is a lot of fun to discuss and act out with toys.

    By being completely open and honest with our deepest desires and fantasies, we have unlocked a whole new level of eroticism in the bedroom after 20 years of marriage. Sex has never been better.
     
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    Have fun exploring! Who knows what will happen next.