I have made many over the years; many of which I didn't know I was making. Now- I wouldn't ever take any of those mistakes back. To my knowledge, none of them have led to anyone's death. We all have shitty experiences in life. The determining factor is how we deal with them. Do we pony up and act like an adult or do we succumb to the servile nature of immaturity? I know that some things may seem unforgivable. That is an error of our human conscious. Anything can be forgiven. That doesn't, of course, advocate for those who hurt people purposely or even for those who do so incidentally. But being a fucking blockhead is still being a fucking blockhead. It's annoying.