Ok im no genious about this position because 90% of the time shes on top because i think it feels best for both of us,,,,,but,,,,,when im on top grinding in her, what is the best way to stimulate the clitorus besides rubbing it with my finger,,,,,for example, should i lay flat on her and grind that so our chests are touching? should i have her legs up in the air on top of my broad shoulders? Or should i go for something in between? I thought that if i laid somewhat flat on her, my penis would be more inclined to rub the top portion of her pussy aka clit. Which "style" of missionary should i be aiming for? thanks!