Missing feeling sexy

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Firecracker, Sep 5, 2007.

  1. Firecracker

    Firecracker New Member

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    Since my boyfriend and I broke up, I've been missing feeling sexy. I always loved teasing. Now, I don't feel sexy at all. Teasing and getting him worked up was always one of my favorite parts of sex. Now all I have is my own "stress relief". Just thought I'd share. When I do go back to Canada I'm not sure when I'll be back online. I'm not sure if I'd be able to access this site from the library.
     
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    Well then, it sounds like to me that you just can't go back to Canada! We need you here!!!!!!
    I'm sure you are still sexy! it takes time to get over this. Time will heal. Hang in there.
    Big hug and smooch!!!
     
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    FC said
    I live in a very uptite area no strip bars no adult stores.
    But this site can be accessed from the adult area of our
    public library.

    Hiker
     
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    I was about to ask if your library really had a section devoted to sexual topics :eyes I was envisioning the patrons all drooling over porn on the computers in that area, with the Kama Sutra and Story of O on display in the background.

    It's funny, I felt much sexier being single than I ever did in a relationship. You have to harness that sex goddess inside of you...she's always with you, regardless of whether you're rolling in bed with someone or flying solo. Put on an outfit that makes you feel sexy, put on some sexy music, and move your hips! Take a sensual bubble bath complete with scented candles and soft music...buy a new sex toy that's visually appealing and a bit different from what you've already got, then spend some quality time with the most reliable and intuitive lover you'll ever have :brow There's nothing wrong with enjoying your own body.

    The sex goddess will come out more naturally when you're with someone if you get acquainted with her while you're single ;)
     
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    Great ideas Bluesy! Thanks.
     
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    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma
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    Definitely, get fixed up and get out in public. You'll notice the looks/stares. They will strengthen your understanding that you are a sexual being.... totally aside from your EX-significant-other. Be and feel all that you are inside.... not for a sexual encounter so much as for your own self-preservation. You KNOW you are beautiful - but you need to know that you are beautiful WITHOUT you ex-partner. Enjoy your outings... make them regularly.... you will know that you're a 'woman to be reckoned with' !!