Missed out

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  1. elksbugle

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    Hi everyone
    Please help me understand.
    I kinda got lucky last night.
    Meet the nice lady, went to dinner and watched a movie at her place. Then we fooled around then I went to go down or her and she said just fuck me. I got scared with that so I left. Thought something might be wrong with not letting me.
     
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    Perhaps nothing?

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    Not everyone likes the same things. Maybe she doesn't like having oral sex performed on her. Maybe at that particular time she just wanted to be fucked.

    You got scared...lol.
     
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    I guess I was wrong.
    But thought it would be nice to lick her first.
    Yes it's nice just to romp sometimes.
     
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    Thats funny,You got scared and left!!.....I dont understand why?
     
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  6. HotForHoney

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    What were you scared of?
    Have you been with many women? Was this a first date?
     
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    She just fancied dick inside her. An yeah maybe shes not a fan of oral. It happens.

    More likely though on this occasion.. more than anything she just wanted to fuck some cock.
     
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    No, it's not the first date.
    But it has been since my wife cheated on me with a co-worker of hers.
    If I can't lick her thought something may be wrong.
    So in stead of asking or causing trouble I excused myself.
    Trying to be respectful.
     
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    Also mate , you shouldn't of left you never know how long it might be until you get your next chance. A guy never knows. Well neither does anyone really.

    The point is , if you're not very confident or not an in charge kind of person.. you should of just let her do pretty much what she wanted. Take the lead.
     
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    I think you need to explain that situation to her and tell her you need to slow down the physical. I'm sure she was left scratching her head.
     
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    Ok fair enough. Puts a slightly different spin on it.

    When you're cheated on , it is quite easy to think it's your fault or there is something wrong with you. But usually that is not true.
     
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  12. sensless

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    So, either sex goes as you think it should, or you leave? Wow!

    You know, some women won't accept oral from a guy they're having a one night stand with without a dental dam. Did you have one? Perhaps she'd rather just have PIV till you're tested and exclusive. Because for that there are condoms, a lot more common than dental dams.

    There's an ONS etiquette. It's for your health and hers.
     
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    Alternatively she was red hot ready wishing to dispense with foreplay just wanting to get right into fucking but then you walked away!
    Dude, I very much doubt that there is a second chance on the menu now :(
    Don't expect every woman to follow your expected script either, each is different and if confident wants things to happen on their terms and it is your charge to pick up on the cues.
     
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    There is a bit of "yadda yadda" in this story. What happened between the time that she said "just fuck me" and you left. Did you say anything? Did she say anything? Did you ask why? Did she ask why?
     
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    yeah how did that go down? when she declined the clam dive excursion, did you just grab your trousers and make for the door and blurt out "Gotta Go"?:D I see no retakes on this one for sure.
     
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    Some series aspects to this the guy was cheated on before. Never nice that.

    [​IMG] But I wish I was a fly on the wall... only a guy like this^^^ could do that and get a retake! "sorry I have people to shoot first" lol

    :D
     
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    So you were scared of an unexpected cream pie?
    Maybe she was on her period and just wasnt comfortable w you diving in? I'm not sure I understand why you'd leave tho?
     
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    You are just not ready. Give yourself more time.
     
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    I dont really get why you left either...Id like to hear what happened in between as well. Im pretty sure you shouldnt bother calling her again though...if some guy did that to me I think Id be quite miffed and give him a "fuck you then" on the way out the door. Lol
     
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  20. lbushwalker

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    Love that turn of phrase because if that happened to me I would turn around and do just that there and then on the doorstep :D
     
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