Mental Foreplay Ideas?

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by Angus, Jul 5, 2012.

  1. Angus

    Angus New Member

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    I'm looking for ideas for some mental foreplay to get my girlfriend really turned on and keep her thinking about me all day,

    So far I've had her do things like find me a porn video about a threesome or some specific topic, find an erotic story about a specific topic, play with herself but not cum while she's at work and take naked pics of herself.

    All stuff where I'm dominating her but in a mental sense rather than physically. Is there a term for this I could search? Does anyone have other ideas for things I can make her do?
     
  2. KateM

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    [FONT=&quot]Maybe check out the novel 50 Shades of Grey to get some ideas. it’s BDSM but not hardcore. I read a lot of women have got turned on by the stuff decribed in there and are now trying it in their bedrooms.

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    [FONT=&quot]One thing described in there was inserting silver balls into the heroine’s vagina and then she goes to a party with them inside and is turned on the whole time until they return home.[/FONT]
     
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    Well hun to be honest it sounds like you need to let her take control a little

    no offense hun but if she is unresponsive she generally either doesn't like what is happening or she just has other things on her mind remember that she may not be in the mood every time you are and try asking about her fantasies and such

    the way to a woman's heart is not always through her ribcage

    ooh bad joke there lol any way maybe she feels insecure or undeserving of your affections I suggest talk to her but let her do most of the talking

    let me know how things turn out
     
  4. 12barblues

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    If she's unresponsive to this approach then mayb it's not her thing....but it sounds like she's into it too? I know sluttyfairy loves that kind of thing . But half the fun with that sort of thing is being original and different/ unique in what goes on...just the fact that you're taking control of her sexually can be a great turn on for some women...as long as youre sure that it is what she wants, it can be very hot....I would say tho, that this behavior shouldn't Carry over into your relationship outside the bedroom. I have the utmost respect for my gf and would never disrespect her in any way.
     
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    speaking for myself the mind can be a powerful tool that can make you cream yourself before your man even touches you. 12 barblues texted me some instructions once .... he told me exactly what he wanted me to do word for word and step by step... he said things like when you get home, I want you to undress and lay on the bed face down and spread your legs and wait for me , dont you fucking look at me and do exactly what your told & dont speak unless spoken to. it was fucken off the chain HOT!!! WHITE HOT!!!!It was a little un nerving as well as erotic , 12bar is the nicest most calm man I have ever known and he is extremely respectful .... so that duality.. made me anxious and fucken all out horney at the same time. This man was being like another person and treating me like I was his sex slave omg!!!! i was about to lose my fucken mind with anticipation wondering what this man was going to do with me ... he made these restraints (wrist ) he instructed me to put them on ... anyways Im getting all juiced up & off the subject .. all the instructions and talk before the act was just as good as the act itself .... needless to say he could have blew on my clit and I would have cum like a rocket because of all the mental foreplay.... and on That day I became his sex slave and I did cum like a rocket....
     
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    That is really fucking hot! I would love it if my BF did something like that
     
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    wow that sounds intense! bet you were dying to get home that day
     
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