My guy and I are spending our first Valentines Day together and we have an active sex life. I am not the Teddy Bear romance kind o gal so I was thinking dinner, lingerie, and porn- and a little non sexual gift on the side- I am concerned the Penthouse might be too tacky or unromantic. iIknow he likes porn especially lesbian porn. I was thinking we could use it together- The Penthouse is sealed in plastic so I dont know whats in it but I hear its a step up from Playboy but not as over the top as Hustler. would the Penthouse seem the equivalent to giving a case of beer and pack of cigarettes for a gift?