Men, u cum faster during sex or while masturbating?

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  1. wholetmydawgout

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    Question to the guys out there:
    Do you cum faster in a pussy or while using your hands? And how long does it take you approximately..please don't use this question to falsely inflate your ego..I am looking for real answers! Thanks.
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    P.S:please answer the question specifically...leave private messages between users to exactly what they are - "private messages"!!
     
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    When I'm having sex it's very hard to me to prolong the orgasm as much as my girl needs. But when I do it on my own I have a technique to strenghten the orgasm and to extend it up to several hours or untill I get completely exhausted.
     
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    I find that my man does cum alot qiucker when having sex than when i give him a hand job. When i masturbate him he can take up to 30 - 40 mins to cum, but with sex esp the first time its usually bout 10 mins or so.
     
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    I use masteurbation mainly as a way to release the tension so to speak. Sex is enjoyment.

    so to answer the question, Masteurbation is a lot quicker.
     
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    I find masturbation a lot easier to control. It can take up to 30-40 mins. While having vaginal sex, I have a hard time lasting more than a few minutes.
     
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    I'm exactly the opposite.

    one thing you might want to try, is to masturbate a few hours before you think you may have sex. the "2nd nut" usually lasts longer.
     
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    I like to try to take a while when masturbating, as it helps to hold my orgasm longer, with results in better performance come "showtime" and also you get a better orgasm out of your masterbation.
     
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    It all depends on what I'm going for, I've spent hours stroking and having phonesex. I have complete control when pulling on it.
    On the other hand the longest I've fucked w/out cumming in a session is an hour and a half. The very first time I got it wet I lasted less than thirty seconds.
     
  9. igor

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    As I get older it has changed. When I was younger I jerked for a quick orgasm. Now I love to make it last a long time, edging many times, usually. I find it quite difficult to hold off during PIV sex and don't last very long. So it is always quicker than masturbation.
     
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    I last alot longer when self pleasuring....although like others during sex with my wife I last far longer for my 2nd orgasm.
     
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    If I'm rubbing one out the idea is to get to the point now and move on to something else.

    Sex is about the whole experiece not just the happy ending so I ususally work at making it last longer.
     
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    It all depends on how much forplay is involved. If my wife really winds me up I cum fast. If its a wam bam thank you mam, it could take up to 30 minutes.
     
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    Maybe it's a matter of "knowing what I like" but I can get myself off way quicker when I'm alone. I think alot of it has to do with I enjoy the giving aspect of sex, so I put more pressure on myself to make in enjoyable for her... Usually this means lasting more than 1 minute :) When I'm alone I'm only worried about myself!
     
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    During masturbation you're in full control and when masturbating I can come in 1 minute or go on for hours.

    During sex I have almost no control and it's all about how horny I am ;-)
     
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    I would have to say i cum faster during sex, becuase i really dont masturbate! yeah i know i am a little weird
     
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    me too
     
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    Well lets see,

    If I masturbate and am trying to come as fast as I can just to cum then it takes about 15 minutes, however I can make it last as long as I want but the longest I have gone for is about 1 hour

    For intercourse, The shortest time I have gone was about 25 minutes, I normally last a good 45 min to hour and 20 minutes, I have gone as long as 2.5 hours

    So it varies, I can also control when I cum very well, but if I do this then sometimes it isn't that enjoyable to me but what ev
     
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