Ok, here's the scoop: I've been seeing a guy for about a month or so now & things were looking decent between us. I just moved to the town he lives in, so now we're able to see each other more. We hang out once in a while, but never an actual date. It never fails everytime we're together, we end up getting it on. The sex is great, but that's all that it amounts to. We talk & laugh and try to get to know each other...but once in a while he acts so cold to me. Like tonight, I asked him if he had plans. He said no & I told him I wasn't doing anything either. Well, we decided to see a movie..no big deal. The movie was great & we had fun talking to each other, but once we got in the car he started acting funny. I asked him if he'd like to come over & watch TV or something. He gave me an excuse of having to get up early in the morning. Fine, I can deal with that. Once I dropped him off at his house, he was out the door immediately. No kiss or anything. Just said thanks & call me when you get home. I wasn't expecting to hop in bed with him or anything, I was just hoping that we could chit chat more. It's awfully hard to chit chat during a movie! Once I called him when I got home, the conversation lasted 5 minutes. During the movie, he could barely sit still & if my arm barely touched his, he move it away. BUT...yet, he did grab my side like he was going to tickle me during the movie. Why can't dating be easy? And why do men have to be so fucking hard to read? I just don't know what to do. I want to get to know him more & take things from there, but I can't when he's got this wall built up on the odd days of the week! Sorry for the rant, I'm just confused with that man. Do you think I should email him or talk to him about this? Is he playing me or is he just playing hard to get? TIA!