it's killing our sex life, I think my girlfriend is absolutely beautiful in any and every possible way, and believe me I make sure she knows how at least in my eyes absolutely gorgeous she is and how I love everything about her including every square inch of her body. Buuuuuuuuuuut she's still super self conscience. I took her V when she was 18 and I'm her first serious relationship, we're both 20 now and I don't know what to do. We have less sex because of it, like we VERY RARELY have daytime sex because she won't say it outright but I know she is uncomfortable with the whole "fully lighted room" scene. She also lets me go down on her less, and I know for a fact she absolutely loves when I go down on her, I thoroughly enjoy it and take pride in what I do when I'm down there. So ladies have you ever felt insecure and found a way to overcome it or guys had this issue? She says she understands how amazing and beautiful I think she is but it doesn't change the way she's though of herself over the years.