this is very odd for me to talk about publicly, but I am having a difficult time getting my significant other to respond to my advances. there is an age difference and everything, but I dont think that it would cause any issues in that area because he masturbates quite frequently and that works for him. But when it actually comes down to having sex he puts it off. I know he isnt cheating because he spends a lot of time with me and we live together. I just dont know what to do. I also cant get him to ejaculate which has become quite damaging to my self esteem I guess because I feel I am doing something inadequate in that department. Is it because he has become comfortable with pleasing himself? or that I am doing something wrong?