Masturbation

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by On_Top, Feb 7, 2007.

  1. On_Top

    On_Top New Member

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    I can get so incredibly horny and turned on, and try to masturbate, but I lose the feeling.
    Maybe I don't have a vivid enough imagination or something. But I try to think of scenarios and stuff. It gets disappointing because I really need that release.
    I try to find my clit, but maybe I'm just not turned on enough for it to show? Or maybe I've felt it but it's not sensitive enough?
    It's just a frustrating situation for me.:(
     
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    Babiegurl New Member

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    Maybe your thinking about it too much. But I sort of have the same problem. I cant use my hand to get off I have to use a vibe. My hand just doesnt do it for me and I over think it and I never get off. I think its more so because I want that touch from someone else. I would really try a vibe and explore and find the spots that feel god to you.
     
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    jódame New Member

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    Some people don't like to consider it (especially girls), but I'd suggest porn. Find the kind that suits you (softcore if you're more romantic, harder if seeing sex gets you going) and go with it. Girls often need to be all-around turned on to get off, and porn can put you mentally and physically in the mood. Don't forget that the ultimate goal isn't always orgasm, either. I've had some very satisfying masturbation sessions where I didn't actually have an orgasm, I just had an incredibly pleasurable "me time." Do what feels right and DON'T be ashamed or guilty, or it won't work out for you.
     
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    marquesl New Member

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    I would be inclined to agree that softcore porn can really do wonders. The thing about softcore porn is that there's plenty going but there's enough that your imagination can work with it. I think that imagination is a powerful stimulant for sex. You get the chance to put into your mind exactly what turn you on.
     
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    I think you worry about it to much. Just relax and dont think about what your are doing. As they said the porn could be a good distraction. Hey if all else fails a couple shots of jager could do the trick! Ha!
     
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    Imagination does the trick for me every time, although im male , but im guessing that it works the same for females , or at least most of the time, sometimes my imagination runs away with me though, and i get way to turned on lol