Masturbation addiction

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  1. outofmymind

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    Does anyone have this issue? Whenever I have time off, it seems I spend most my time masturbating. Sometimes I do it so much it almost makes me disinterested in seeing my girl. I really don't like doing it so often that it wastes my time either. What are some things you can do to stop?
     
  2. RANDYHUNTCO

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    The major problem is that it can eventually make it difficult to respond in a regular sexual relationship because the arousal component becomes so strongly linked to the masturbation. It can become addictive. You can waste a lot of time but you do build up the muscles in your arm. LOL On the positive side IT IS SAFE SEX EVEN WITHOUT A CONDOM
     
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    It is good to see you recognize this being a problem and want to do something about it. Do you do it because you are really that horny, or are you just bored a lot? Maybe you need a hobby or some other activity to take up your spare time.
     
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    i dont think its worth doing all the time, but if you are doing it while looking at porn then thats different, there has been the odd time where i see a video that i had jerked to and i found it so good that i wanted my cock to recover so i could jerk to it again
     
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    If you have a true addiction, there isn't much help to be found on an internet sex forum. You need professional help for that kind of thing.
     
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    Another thought, masturbation in the extreme is natures way to release stress, animals do it a lot in zoos, especially if they are over crowded or if there is not enough stimulation for them. You might have an issue that you are working out in this way. Look at your life and try and see if there is something deep down that is bothering you. Meantime, it is a release for you and that is good.
     
  7. outofmymind

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    I have plenty of hobbies, but if I get the urge to masturbate then I'll put them off for later. It's just a distraught feeling when you have the urge to do something, then you don't do it because you are trying to cut back. Kind of like a smoker who is trying to stop smoking.