Masturbating frequency

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  1. Pluto

    Pluto New Member

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    Whilst there's this age old saying "masturbating makes your eyes go blurry" etc (not that I believe it), I just feel I "slap the salami" a bit too often to feel "normal".

    Does anyone have any good way to just get your mind off doing such acts??
     
  2. hannan rose

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    cold showers lol humm think of your grandmom unless thats what you liek then dont lol i find drinking someing cold helps me when i feel the need to touch myslef but cant lol
     
  3. Kronnie

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    I have always been into handing myself a job as often as i can lmao..


    Theres nothing wrong with doing that (as long as your alone or with your partner)
    Every relationship i have been in no matter how much intercourse i was getting i still had to masturbat as well.

    But im not sure why you would feel something that gives you some pleasure would be a wrong thing to do..
     
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    maybe it has something to do with his faith.
     
  5. Kronnie

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    Faith or upbringing perhaps.

    But there is nothing wrong with pleasuring yourslef though. if it feels good , ( as long as it isnt something illegal hehe ) then play with your penis as much as you wish to. i know i do :p
     
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    I can say when you get older and doing it as much as me your dick stays drained and makes it harder to get hard, So i just recently slowed down from my crazyness which was getting off like 10 times a day... Just when its hard try to think of other things, and stay busy.. Im bad about when i get bored i get turned on and want to masterbate... But im getting better at slowing down my masterbating, Which inproves me being able to cum alot more and getting harder and staying harder then i was doing...
     
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    There are lots of things that give pleasure that are bad for us in large quantities. I've tried many of them... to excess. As far as slapping the salami, Impulse can attest to the benefits of saving some for a special occasion. Limiting instant self-gratification, whatever the source, is equivalent to self discipline, which is always boon to your self assurance, self respect and how you approach life in general.

    Pluto, anything that makes you feel less than normal, as you say, is something you should think about. You're smart to be introspective.

    As far as advice, a hobby or interest that gets you out of the house regularly is helpful. You may find there are many interesting things that are great fun to think about.
     
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    Life is good when you can control it :)
     
  9. Pluto

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    Yes, I do feel a little bored.. yes it gives me pleasure but I'm just thinking.. "man, I am not a teenager now... grow up, stop wanking yourself so often"... maybe coz I've too much "me" time and not enough "couple" time... or watch TV more and just not thinking about it.

    Btw, it's nothing to do with faith.
     
  10. Kronnie

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    Well each to their own....
    In relationships i still wank a lot, out of relationships i wank alot....
    You would have to check my pictures to see if i am mr.floppy because of how much i wank..

    I enjoy it, if i wish to do it then i do. i sure as hell do not feel guilty about doing it...if you all do then thats your choice.
    stop it youll go blind , youll loose your erection ability youll get this this will happen that will happen...


    Yeah well im 34 i been wanking since i was 11....so 23 years of happily wanking myself off in or out of relationships.
     
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    Its my willy and I'll wash it just as fast as I like:D
     
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    He he, Kronnie, you make me laugh!

    Nothing wrong with wanking. I get tons of sex and still have a good old mastab! Sometime all you want is to concentrate on your own pleasure.
     
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    Hear hear I echoe that sentiment
     
  14. Kronnie

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    Thankyou to both of you hehehe, great to know im not alone in my quest for self pleasure ( although in relationships i make sure i am always giving plenty of pleasure to the female in my life....but still have to wank off after ... )
     
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    genius!

    theres nothing wrong with banishing a white russian from your kremiln (hooray for metaphors)
    so long as your partner doesnt mind, its perfectly normal, and darn good fun.
     
  16. Kronnie

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    anyone for sexual russina roulette roflmao....see who fires the blank hahaha..

    sorry just using metaphores to :p
     
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    I pleaure myself 2-3 times a week. I could not imagine giving up eating my cum.
     
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    If you're not opposed to it, just this morning I was reading about people who use chastity belts. And yeah, they make them for guys too! I was surprised, to say the least!
     
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    Calm down....if wank gives you a pleasure....why not ? NO DRUGS Keep your cock UP and if is health go on :)
    P.S. you can try a woman maybe things will change :)
     
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    go for a run ?? but whos to say to much is to much hahaha