[Ask a Guy] Masterbating before sex?

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Does Masterbating before sex help you last longer?

  1. Yes, it helps

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  2. No, it doesnt

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  1. notanewbie

    notanewbie Member

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    I've heard alot of people say if you masterbate like an hour or so before having sexual intercourse, you will last longer. Is this true?
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    ninja08hippie Official SF Hugger Gold Member

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    Yes, but I like it better when she does it ;)

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    Rocket Queen New Member

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    Well if you are the type of guy who only goes once, you would not want to waste it..... but if you can reload many times then you might want to try it....

    You also might want to ask the girl if she likes being pounded for ages or would she rather just be pounded for 10 mins or so.
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    alright thanks guys
  5. Joe

    Joe Gold Member

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    I voted yes, but I don't need any "help", so I don't masturbate before having sex. I can recall doing it in my teens, however.
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    At my age (68) if I masturbated, it would be several hours before I could even want sex, on a good day.
    Maybe you young squirts can benefit from doing that. But why masturbate - just have sex with her twice!
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    Nope, never have done that cuz Ive always been able stay hard after I shoot for the first time....and after shooting a 2nd time , it takes me just a few minutes to regroup,also depends on how much my wife wants to play still....if shes into it, no probs for me to rise again....
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    JO any time the day also greatly reduces your load volume which helps on BJs if she's not into swallowing large amts.
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    i voted yes, because it does for me especially when you dont have long enough for 2 - 3 rounds
  10. Poky

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    I said no because I usually last longer with a partner. Besides, I don't stop at just one round!!!
  11. da old dude

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    When I was a teenager and into my early 20's, when I'd be foolin' around with a lady and we got to the point where I knew were going to have sex, I'd excuse myself to go the the restroom. Once there I'd whack one off, and go back to what I was doing with the lady. When I was that age I'd cum much too quickly unless I did that before hand.

    So it helped me then. Don't have to worry about that now.
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    pointless to do so
    just have sex with her then do so playing around or eat her out while you recharge then go for round 2! unless of course you enjoy wanking...
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    I have found it to be particularly helpful before the first time with someone.
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    Make sure you do it far enough before sex so you are ready, and that you WILL be able to be ready when the real thig happens. I prefer receiving the masturbation too.
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    Masturbating is the only sex i get.
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    I am all about just having sex twice. The wife and I will get a quickie in the morning which will just get us more in the mood for that evening. I also seem to past longer when we have sex in the morning first.
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    Hogwash, irrespective of age the best way to enjoy sex is to have lots of foreplay.
    That way you can stimulate the female who is more likely to take longer to reach orgasm anyway.
    Once into intercourse, pace yourself; holdback from reaching climax, even by stopping for a short few seconds.
    You will not lose her in the process and when she is about to have hers let go.
    You'll both enjoy it far more and to have it simultaniously, well there are no words to describe the pleasure.
    Masturbate in advance and kiss it all goodbye, beleive me I have been having sex before I should have been and still am enjoying it as much at 53 by sticking to this method.
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    i say no, i have tried it and to no benefit.
    plus i recoup fast anyhow and if i blow the first one ill just go right back in for rnd 2.
    and usually doing this way the 2nd and 3rd round last a long time!!!
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    I noticed this is quite an old thread but the subject is still obviously quite relevant to many people.

    Myself, I hate it when my partner jerks off on the days we're likely to have sex. I would rather passionate "needy" sex that lasts a couple of minutes than putting up with him struggling to keep his erection while persisting in trying to "satisfy" me. If I go down on him, I want him to respond, even if he nearly drowns me with the force of his cum, I don't want to feel like I may as well just give him a back rub for all the enthusiasm he's showing. (The joys of being with a "One Hit Wonder". :eyes)

    For the guys who can recharge quickly, why not share that with your partner? I've had plenty of sessions when the partner of the time wanted seconds or even thirds. It suits me as I love to swallow the first load and then finish off with a nice sensual round of regular lovemaking.
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    guess its different for everyone, cause i can cum up to 3 times and still remain hard.