Martymachlia

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by Priapus, Dec 27, 2011.

  1. Priapus

    Priapus New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 22, 2011
    Messages:
    123
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canada
    The enoyment of being watched during sexual acts.

    Am curious what others have to say about this whether you also enjoy being seen/watched by others and possibly arousing them, or just general thoughts on this?

    I/we have never been watched before but I find the thought of this to be very arousing.

    I would like to live out this fantasy, possibly just starting out with a bj from my wife while another woman or couple watches an maybe even get aroused enough to start pleasing eachother aswell.

    I guess what I really would like to know is how can we make this happen?
     
  2. pbs

    pbs
    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 1, 2011
    Messages:
    881
    Likes Received:
    441
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Northeast
    You might ease into it by making a video and showing it to others, just to break the ice, and then try a live viewing if it still sounds appealing.

    Regarding others' thoughts, I couldn't care less if someone watches me make love to my wife, but just the thought of being watched terrifies my wife. I wanted to make love to her on a nude beach in Hawaii many years ago, but she wouldn't even take her suit off.
     
    #2 pbs, Dec 27, 2011
    Last edited: Dec 27, 2011
  3. Paula

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 25, 2007
    Messages:
    1,020
    Likes Received:
    26
    Gender:
    Female
    ??? Nude beach...suit? :lol
     
  4. pbs

    pbs
    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 1, 2011
    Messages:
    881
    Likes Received:
    441
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Northeast
    Maybe I should have used the term "bathing suit optional." Anyway, mine came right off and it really felt great being nude in public like that, but she would have none of it :(.
     
  5. Paula

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 25, 2007
    Messages:
    1,020
    Likes Received:
    26
    Gender:
    Female
    :)
     
  6. cilla35

    cilla35 New Member

    Joined:
    Dec 21, 2011
    Messages:
    28
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    East Coast
    I'd love to watch :) It is also a turn on to know my watching is a turn on for you--the spiral gets ever more intense ...
     
  7. Priapus

    Priapus New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 22, 2011
    Messages:
    123
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canada
    Seems that you def understand the kinkiness of it cilla.
     
  8. Priapus

    Priapus New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 22, 2011
    Messages:
    123
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canada
    I'm the same way, and like your my wife is more reserved aswell.
    Once while in the ocean I "helped" her take her top off, she wouldnt face the beach where there were people, even though we were quite a good distance from shore lol
     
  9. lbushwalker

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 18, 2006
    Messages:
    6,963
    Likes Received:
    5,074
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    'Stralia Mate!
    I love the spiral bit :p
     
  10. Meow181

    Meow181 Active Member

    Joined:
    Nov 11, 2011
    Messages:
    379
    Likes Received:
    93
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Australia
    Well I'm into public sex it's a huge turn on for me. But I prefer to do not watch. Just the exhibitionist coming out in me ;)
     
  11. cbrmale

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 26, 2006
    Messages:
    3,493
    Likes Received:
    291
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canberra
    I certainly prefer to be watched rather than watch others, it's a big turn-on for me. For the OP, one way to make this happen is to go to a swingers club or party, but with the intention of having sex as a couple. Then you two can have sex and I guarantee you will be watched. And it's all legal and consensual.
     
  12. Priapus

    Priapus New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 22, 2011
    Messages:
    123
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canada
    Although the club idea would def get us seen it would be a big jump, for me but more so for my wife. who quite honestly I am still trying to get her on board fully.

    Ideally I think with a friend would be best as far as being comfortable for a first time thing. I know that this could also lead to problems so a full discussion between all involved would be a must.

    Unfortunatly any female friends we have would prob not be into it, way to reserved and almost prudes.
     
  13. xeniadraven

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Feb 4, 2012
    Messages:
    940
    Likes Received:
    190
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    UK
    I would happily watch as long as I could join in at some point. Although i must admit the thought of being watched arouses me.

    I'd happily be watched masturbating and then those watching would eventually join me. I love the idea of being taken advantage of and the thought of people being aroused by watching would get me even wetter!