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  1. andylife

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    hi I have always be curious on what woman feel about bisexual men.. it took me years to accept I found men attractive and really only now have I started to explored sex with another man... I hate the idea of being bisexual because i feel odd inside thinking woman see it as vile and discussing.. most times i wished I was either gay or straight... I guess a lot of bi people have gone through the same thing.. for me I want the love and sexual passion of a woman.. but the act and indifference of sex with another man, particularly oral... im open minded and if i have a connection with a guy i have to admit, i love knowing i can make him feel good having him in my mouth.. i have often thought about having a gay relationship and exploring being just gay.. though i know i could never fall in love with a man like i can with a woman .... my question is how do woman see bi men... do woman see it vile that a guy would give another guy oral sex,, would you have reservations on dating a bi guy
     
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    Since you asked for female OPINIONS, I will offer MINE.

    I don't think I could date a bi-man. Id always feel like there was something you wanted I couldn't give.
     
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    Women see bi men in a variety of ways. I do know some women who are quite negative about bi men. They assume that such men wouldn't be masculine in bed, and they assume that such men would cheat on them with other men. I, however, think highly of bisexual men and women. They often have an openness and relaxation about things that other people get uptight about. And since I give oral sex, it would be silly of me to see it as vile if someone else did the same thing. I wouldn't date another man besides my boyfriend, so that isn't really an issue, but I have a strong fantasy about watching the boyfriend fuck another man's mouth, whether the other man is bi or gay.
     
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    hi at one time I was ashamed to think I was bi..... and after I had given a guy oral sex I felt dirty and repulsed. as time has passed I feel different about it.. now I can say I love it... sucking another mans cock is such a passionate act to do to a man... I see why a lot of woman love doing it... the reason I asked the question do woman see man on man as vile.. I remember I talk my now ex wife I believe I'm bisexual all hell opened up I was vile discussing gay the lot... now bisexual woman are looked at differently.. its sexy trendy and accepted by both men and woman
     
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    I have watched gay/bi porn and found it quite the turn on. I also have a very open mind and believe if it is consenting adults, well go at it! lol
    Guy on guy or girl on girl or girl on guy on guy on girl, lol, I don't care, it's all hot!

    As far as being with a bi man, IDK, never really thought about it.
     
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    I'll answer on behalf of my GF . She wouldn't like it. She never really said why, just that she couldn't be with a guy that was... And I'm not, so we never needed to discuss it further... She has gay friends so its not a homophobic thing.. maybe she feels like H4H...But I don't see the problem with it tho, myself. And Meees comments make alotta sense I think.
     
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    hi I have not been on here long.. hence I don't know as yet wat you can say until it offends other users!!
     
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    Basically as long as you're not making personal attacks and are not talking incest, bestiality, scat, or stuff with minors then you're good to go.

    This is (for the most part) a totally Judgement-Free Zone. I've never seen anyone ostracized for their sexual preference. And, though we may tease you for a few certain sexual proclivities, we'll never actively try to drive you off... unless you're into one of the things that I listed above... and even then we'll probably just be like, "Dude, WTF? Keep it to yourself." (But those things above are against Site Policy anyway, so... yeah.)
     
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    Well being brought up ultra conservative I always thought man on man would be disgusting.. But yes I do have lots of gay and a few lesbian friends and I believe differnt strokes for differnt folks and whatever turns you on who I am to say it's wrong... My FWB is very open sexually likes swinging and has no real taboos and before you ask he's very masculine and is a Marine!! He was married and has 2 children .. But enjoys getting a blow job from a man and giving them.. Over the weekend I had the experience of MFM with him and a bi-guy..the men did not penetrate each other (just me) but they did share sucking cock with me!! And it was very hot.. One helped jerk the other one off and into my mouth!! Hot!!
     
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    My wife is certainly not repulsed by the gay scenes in Game of Thrones, that's for sure.
    Myself (being a man), it's definitely not my thing, but I don't see any point in judging. I wouldn't like it if someone else criticized me for my harmless guilty pleasures, so I don't do it to others either.
     
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    I had thoughts of it, find nothing wrong with it, just that I feel it with a certainty women are what does it for me.
    The only thing wrong with a lesbian, is that I could not be with her if I wanted to ;) other than that it's good.
     
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    I wouldnt want a bi man to compete with..There wouldnt be any left for me!!:D xo
     
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    naughty4u, MFM with him and a bi-guy..the men did not penetrate each other (just me) but they did share sucking cock with me!! And it was very hot.. One helped jerk the other one off and into my mouth!! Hot!!

    I have to say I would like to experience MFM there is something sexy about sucking a guy at the same time with a woman then sharing his cum why I don't know but it is!!
     
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    Andy it was very sexy! I don't know why either...years ago that thought probably would have repulsed me!! But it was very hot to have both our mouths hungrily going after the same cock we had tongue play with each other and the cock!! It was very hot!! And yes we did share the cum!! Try it you'll like it!!
     
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    lol I hope to...
     
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    I think it would be so sexy both sucking with our mouth over his head til he cums then both of us lick and swallow him cum... you have got me started now
     
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    Just my thoughts, take them or leave them. I live in the US, here the church (in tbe heart of the bible belt) we are brainwashed to belive any same sex is an abomination. And no sexual position except missionary is allowed, that is how they keep "control" so to speak. When i moved away from the church and started learning we can see same sex relations in nature, it is used in primates for both political power as well as pleasure, same as our own species. Inn short share with your so, secrets are not a good thing in a close relationship. Find someone who is clean and trustworthy. We only get to ride around the sun so many times before we have to check out, we should all have the right to do, try and continue what makes us happy so long as it is not harmf harmful to people around us. I would say go for it and if someone does not like it show them your middle finger while asking if they know what the letters fo mean.
     
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    I have no problem with bi sexual men. I would have no problem being with one. I don't share so as long as while he was with me he's only with me it's all good.
    I enjoy gay porn when I am in right mood! I find it quite a turn on!
     
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    I have known a couple people that were some sort of relationship with bi men . In both cases the woman thought it was hot when they first started playing but eventually they started feeling that there was something they couldn't equal up to and eventually the guys did end up pretty much going for more guys instead of woman.
     
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    I have tried a gay relationship e.g. experimented being with just a guy.. it just didn't feel it was me waking up with another man felt odd.. hence I must be more attracted to woman