Hi everyone. As you can see I am new here, so if this post is in the wrong section, I apologize. As you can see by the title, I am a virgin male. I don't really feel any peer pressure to have sex, but Id like to at least fool around with a girl. I have a few questions, any and all feedback would be appreciated. Some of these questions may seem obvious, so I apologize fore my ignorance. -When I go to parties and bars, I am fine chatting up girls, and getting them to laugh etc, but how do I get them back to my place? I seem to hit a roadblock at this point. -When hooking up with a girl, and I cum during foreplay/blowjob, is that a turnoff? How do I get hard again, what do I do after? -How soon will I cum? 30 seconds? -Do I shave my balls? Can I just trim them? -Where do I cum? If Im receiving a BJ, Im probably not going to last long, so do I cum in her mouth? Face? Tits? Do I ask? If Im F****** her, do I cum in the condom? -Im going to be nervous as hell, right? -Should my first hookup be with someone special? I suppose this is a personal question, but the reason I ask, is because I know a girl who has told me she'd F*** me. Im wondering whether I should take her offer (she isn't that attractive, and isn't someone I admire as a person) and just get it over with, or should I wait for someone who I at least respect/admire? Again, its a decision I have to make for myself, but any advice would help. Thank you very much. Any other advice/suggestions would be appreciated.