Sooo I'm kind of a virgin at 22, fucked up right? But I'm not the typical shy or unattractive kind, I'm actually pretty good looking and pretty fun to be around. I had a bit of a phobia of pregnancy and STDs for awhile combined with a lack of any type of emotional connection with the girls I was with, so stuck with lots o' oral. Anyhow I'm a fucking published erotica writer with heaps of sexual book knowledge and a actively pursue intellectual conversations about sex, so yeah don't come off as a virgin. I' really don't know how to bring it up to a girl I may want to have sex with. I mean I typically attract (and am attracted to) girls who like sex and have done it quite a bit, not the goodie goodie type. Mentioning I'm a virgin with my personality type really just comes off as hypocritical and weird. I'm thinking of just doing it without saying anything because I'm fairly confident I am the best virgin at sex ever, even though that may be like saying I'm the best blind baseball player. Any advice on how to treat this situation?