Male Enhancement?

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  1. name_user

    name_user New Member

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    Hey guys and gals,

    I need some advice. I am wondering if there is any solution to lasting longer during intercourse. I don't like to use condoms so are there anything supplements you can take to last longer for a guy my age(21). I am very satified with my size and have no problem getting erections so I don't think "extenze or viagra" is for me but is there any thing safe to take at my age just to take to last longer when having sex or any techniques. I must say though once I cum I have no problem getting hard again after a minute but I want to be able to have a really long session without stopping. So once again my question is are there any guys my age taking anything safe for them to longer sex session or any techniques?
     
  2. Bluesy

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    First of all, I'm hoping that you're in a monogamous relationship with a partner who's on birth control. Secondly, the only type of pill/supplement that can effectively combat PE is an SSRI antidepressant, but it won't work for everyone and there are potential side-effects to consider. I would only use it as a last resort. The easiest thing to do is to use a tiny bit of a desensitizing lotion, or you can try some of the techniques in this article: http://www.menshealth.com/cda/artic...item=294a99edbbbd201099edbbbd2010cfe793cd____

    Hopefully others will have some good advice as well. Good luck!
     
  3. name_user

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    *Actually Just to edit some things I wouldn't mind getting more larger if there any safe pills to enhance your penis permanently without side effects and safe for a young men to take?
     
  4. Bluesy

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    The claims in the ads you see for "male enhancement" pills are completely bogus. There is no such thing as a supplement or cream or whathaveyou that will make your penis bigger. What does work wonders is a healthy dose of self-acceptance.
     
  5. FlirtyChick

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    As Bluesy suggested, there are several techniques you can use to lengthen your performance time. Check her link; it is good. Also, you can try stopping and starting, i.e. intercourse, stop and give your woman a little oral, a little more intercourse, stop and use a toy, and so on. This will help you practice control, as you will likely remain hard throughout all this excitement, and may lead to eventual longer intercourse. Also, a cock ring, designed to restrict the retraction of your scrotum, as happens with male orgasm, might be of interest to you. I applaud you for wanting to go longer, but I am curious..Is this at the request of your partner or is this your idea. Frankly, I am multi-orgasmic and quick about it, but I like the idea of the instant hard-on afterwards. That keeps it going on and on....for both of you! :)
     
  6. name_user

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    Well... its my idea, my partner likes going hard at it all the time and no stopping so as much as the stop and go technique that really doesn't work. so i just want to have one time were i can just keep pounding her for about 30 mins straight non stop and have her lay down and just take it, u know.
     
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    Personally, going at it for 30 minutes straight can become a drudgery. You CAN go at it, varying your technique and positions. This would include switching up between real fucking and other equally enjoyable sexual activities.

    In reference to dick size, honestly, learning to use your 'gift' (rather than making it a mega-tool) is more in line with most women's desires. The fact that you can "O", then get up in a minute or so will work to your advantage, for sure! But in order to keep from orgasming, try switching up. When you think you're really really close, force yourself to back off and do something solely for her pleasure.... gentle oral... hover over her with wild fingering... kiss and lick her where she is most sensitive....make her beg for more fucking... then start all over again.

    Trust me, your 30 minutes will turn into 1 hour.. 1 1/2 hours.... filled with fun and pleasure and sexual delight for BOTH of you! :brow
     
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    Try those condoms that numb your member. We've tried that a few times. It works pretty well. And when you finally do orgasm, yea it rocks. ;)
     
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    Name User said

    I can go 4-5 hours on a good night. But I definitely cant go full blast for
    30 minutes.
    Stop and make love to Her instead of just trying to fuck her brains out.
    I like to stop and get a gentle kiss while I squeeze my cock.
    I don't really do it like the link Blusey said. I just squeeze it hard enough
    to hurt and the Hard goes away for awhile.
    Sex is supposed to be fun not work.

    Hiker
     
  10. Thorn

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    Takin' care of business and working overtime. (by BTO)
     
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    Keigel's. Also, slowing down. Change positions reguralry, and avoid any that get tight inside.
     
  12. Mr.Tongue

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    my doc put me on antidepressant for leg pain due to diabates, the side effect are lasting longer, from a few minutes to to 10 or 15, enough to make the wife sleep realwell. and it also make me tired all the time(pill s not the act :) )

    I think it cymbalia(sim ball ta) talk to the doc, he'd know what to tell you or who you could talk to.

    good luck!
     
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    I tried that kama sutra de sensitizing lotion the other day it burns for the first part but doesnt really work for me, I can still cum when I want to, are there any tips on how to use it more properly and effectively?
     
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    The most effective way to control ejaculation is to exercise your pc muscle, and then squeeze it when you get too close. The only really effective way to stop from coming is to not necessarily come to a full stop, but certainly to slow down and squeeze when you get close.

    I'll echo a couple of others on this thread, most women don't enjoy being pounded for thirty minutes. Really you have two choices: hard and fast (which women really like sometimes - but it is fast) or slow lovemaking (which is fantastic).
     
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    what is the pc muscle? where is it exactly is it the actually penis?
     
  16. igor

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    You have got to be kidding :lol
     
  17. BassDude

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    The PC muscle is the muscle in your lower abdomen that you (for instance) use to cut off a stream of urine when you're urinating. That's actually a good exercise...every time you go "pee", use your PC muscle to cut the urine flow off and on. You can flex your PC muscle anytime, driving, sitting at your deck, standing in line somewhere, posting on this forum. Flex it and hold it...that's what helps you hold back ejaculation. (One note, if you wait too late to tighten and hold the PC muscle though, you might still ejaculate, but it just goes into your bladder rather than coming out your penis. You'll usually go soft after this, just like you would a normal ejaculation. Next time you "pee" though, it'll be foamy.) If you can use your PC muscle and slow, deep breathing to back-off from ejaculation, you usually stay hard and can crank things back up again.

    Dave