Hello all, I am looking to experience anal sex with a partner for the first time. I have always been an anal-erotic male; frequently masturbating using a butt-plug and toys. However, it has never been the most clean experience. Allow me to explain my hygiene routine and then express my concern. Before playing with myself, I either go to the bathroom and then use an anal douche or just simply douche to induce a bowel movment. I use a pretty standard CVS bought plastic douche bottle that I fill with water, and fill it up and repeat until I'm significantly clean and pressure is relieved (sometimes it only takes about 3 fillings, others it can be up to 10.) Pretty much immediately after this, I will insert my butt-plug (medium sized, about 6 in. circumference at the widest) and get myself warmed up. I use a standard ID Brand water based lube. For about the first 2 minutes, I expect a little messiness, so there is usually a little bit of fluid or anal mucus that will escape when I remove the plug (nothing too disgusting, just like yellow to brownish mucus and water). This is fine, and after a little bit, I clean up and it seems to subside for the most part, and I begin playing. Here is my problem though: this mucus will periodically escape again throughout my session, depending upon the angle of my body (standing vs. doggy, etc.), no matter how clean I seem to be, even on my best days. My question then is this: does any experienced reciever of anal know what I'm talking about, and is there a way to minimize this substance leakage? It would be pretty embarrasing to have this happen with a partner. I'm an otherwise good bottom, very relaxed and willing. What are people's routines for anal preparation? Any help is greatly appreciated. Thank you.