So a few weeks ago, a girl I know in a social situation (non-drunk) made it clear to me that she hasn't had sex in so long and really needs it, she said she just wants purely no-strings sex. She implied she would go for me, when she said, "you still have a girlfriend, right? So I guess that's out..." It was out then, because I did have a girlfriend. My girlfriend dumped me a few weeks ago. This new chick is attractive and I could totally go for it. But some time has passed since then and now. How can I get her back on the topic/show that I'm interested too? Even though time has passed, I know her situation sexually hasn't changed. Something casual, like a simple dinner invitation, and then see where the conversation goes from there? If she doesn't mention anything from herself, should I try to bring it up again? What's the safest way to go about it, how can I drop a tiny hint and see if she goes for the bait? And if she doesn't go for the bait? My natural style is to drop a huge bomb like, "hey, wanna fuck?" This has worked in the past, but more times than not, results in a slap in the face, lol. I'd like to play this one with a little more finesse.