My wife always wants to make love (which is fine most of the time) , but sometimes i just want to just have sex for the hell of it ? My wife seems to sense this and tells me she wants to make love , i have found this more frustrating over recent months. I do understand what she is saying but i don't think i'm being unreasonable in wanting to fuck just for the hell of it sometimes infact i think it's nice that after 26 years of marridge i still want to just have her for the hell of it but maybe i'm wrong maybe i'm being a typical shallow minded male !! .......and to make things worse there is a female at work showing interest and my wicked side is thinking impure thoughts !!! .... What do you guys suggest ?