Lying about Age

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  1. stephen101

    stephen101 New Member

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    If ur guy said he was ur age but it turned out he was much younger even though u could never tell How upset would you be?
     
  2. Bluesy

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    Mendacity is a deal-breaker in my book. If you truly respect a lady, you don't lie to her. For any reason. Period.
     
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    Be up front , if you base your relationship on a lie , it will backfire and then you more than likly wont even have her as a friend.
    If you to young for her tatste and you know it, but lie to her, how do you expect her to respect or even have any trust in you. ?
     
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    You are 18. How old is the girl?
     
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    I agree TOTALLY with Bluesy!:tup

    There is no excuse for a liar!:down
    ~Bella
     
  6. stephen101

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    its not a girl just in general. i was also wondering like if i was eighteen but was very mature and ahead of myself in years (but i was gorgeous and looked older than my age) would older women automatically turn me away of sorts if they knew my age up front considering they were single?
     
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    Why worry about it, If the Woman (You said it not a Girl)
    accepts you and you like her their is nothing to lie about.
    Its hard to deceive a person about your age, Even here its hard to do
    Even here we know already that your not a day older than 18 just
    from reading your:sf post.


    Hiker:sf
     
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    Lying will only give away your age. Just tell her. If it bothers her that much she probably isn't worth it.
     
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    They might or they might not. It really depends on the individual. If all you're after is superficial sex then you'd be surprised how many older women are turned on by the thought of having sex with a gorgeous eighteen-year old. After all, why wouldn't they? Don't older men get turned on by the idea of having sex with a beautiful eighteen year old girl?

    It's always best to be honest.
     
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    I once met a man on the internet who told me he was 26. I was 30 at the time. We talked online and on the phone for a while. He was very attractive and well spoken. We went out on a couple of dates and had a good time. Then I found out that he was really 19. I could have lived with that, but he also lied about his living situation, and what kind of job he had. Honestly, I liked him enough that had he been honest, I would have kept seeing him. However, since he lied, I never saw him again.
     
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    Liars never win. I'd never let a liar into my heart, especially over such a stupid lie....I could live with an age difference, if the person was honest.
     
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    The truth will always come up, so I don't see why should he or her lie.
     
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    I will tell you don't lie her
     
  15. Brad

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    This one is dead easy to solve. If you are concerned that your new partner might not like your true age, no need to tell a lie.

    Just say, "That's one of life's mysteries!"

    Keep them guessing until they like you enough not to care a jot!
     
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    The difference Brad is you are 42 and he is 18. Age makes more of a difference when you are his age.
     
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    SmallPackage

    Fair point, I agree that age gaps are more significant at younger ages.

    But I stick by what I said, being that there is no need to tell a lie.

    Clearly if there is any concern about a person being below the age of consent then that is a serious matter. My previous comment was made on the assumption that this was not an issue.
     
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    I hear ya ;) I agree, no need to tell a lie - about age - or for any other reason.
     
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    :werd that happened to me at the local MX track. Then I see some guy slapping her ass and treating her like a common whore. So her loss. :D