Lube question?? too young to need it?

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  1. xplodez

    xplodez New Member

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    My gf and i recently stopped using condoms a month or two ago yet i think il be the first person ever to say this but i have noticed that sex without condoms doesnt seem to even feel much better.. maybe im crazy but i really get her turned on and she is very wet when i put my fingers inside her.. now im not huge but im about 8 inches long and between 5 1/2 and 6 girth.. now it seems when i go to enter her its just semi dryish and at the same time very hard to enter her.. she is only 23 , is she too young for needing lube for regular vaginal sex? i mean she is the only girl i have actually had sex with so i wouldnt know sex wise, but it seems that she dries out quickly... any ideas?
     
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    A girls wetness can depend on a number of different things, from how turned on she is, or simply her body chemistry,.. on that day. :)

    Do what feels good! :) If you need a little lube, use some. It's best to be on the safe side and use a little if you're having any trouble penetrating her, you don't want her to have any pain or discomfort upon insertion or intercourse. :ugh

    Everybody is different, irrespective of age. Don't worry about what's 'normal' for anybody else, just go with the flow and do what feels right for the both of you. :)
     
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    If she's not getting wet enough I'd definitely use lube, just to be safe. I knew a guy that ripped his frenulum from going in dry. Egad.
     
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    Was you using lubricated condoms before.
    I would suggest baby oil. It wont wear out.

    Hiker
     
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    yes lubed, after about 20 min the condoms usually dried out and i had to change because it started to drag on my skin.. she says its because im big but i think maybe she is not as wet and lube may be needed...
     
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    xplodez New Member

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    oh man she must have been ultra dry