Have a question for all people in LTR or serious relationships. I have read the answers to the penis size question - some don't care, some like size, others girth, etc... But another question arises for me at it leads to a more expansive question. How many people compare past lovers to present lovers. And when the present lovers don't measure up - be it size. shape, experimentation level, passion, fitness, sexual appetite, techniques, etc... what are the thoughts? Do you not think about it, focus on the gestalt of the current lover, or reminisce about the past? If a past lover was larger or a better lover - does it demean or lessen the respect and attractiveness of the current partner???