I was wondering if any others in this forum had been in long term sexless, or low sex relationships. I am in the second one of my life. I was married for fifteen years to a wonderful lady who had little or no desire for sex. When I divorced I swore I would never be in a long term low sex relationship again. Well, here I am. I have been in an emotionally intimate relationship with a woman I love for over ten years. I discovered early in our relationship that she only had sexually feelings when she was drunk. (I believe she was sexually abused as a child even though she denys she was). Within the first few months I tired of sloppy drunken sex. Our sexual contact has dwindled to once a year or less and I don’t look forward to it. We don’t live together so occasionally I have sex with a fuck buddy but it feels like I am back in the same rut I was in when I was married. Has any one else experienced this?