It's amazing how society thinks that if you share your wife that you can't possibly love each other. You think we're crazy but you don't know the feeling of true selflessness. Yes the act of watching your wife having sex with another man would probably rip a you apart. Our love is deeper than just me. I'm capable of giving her her fantasies and not falling apart thinking that she doesn't love me. Because there is more to us than just me. Is it more like you couldn't bare the sight of watching her cum on another man's cock. Without you thinking that she doesn't love you. That's fine by all means don't let it happen, even if you talk about the deepest desires and taboos that she might want. Don't give it to her, she's not being honest right. She's just a slut wanting to fuck your friends. It's not something that she could possibly really want right. I'm a big enough man and trust my wife enough to give her what she wants and what I want too. Don't lay your small, close minded concepts at my feet expecting me to shrivel and fade. How about you don't love your wife to even talk about taboo subjects let alone act on them. I never forced my wife into this. It is not a requirement of my love but a byproduct of it. You will never feel the closeness that we feel because you can't imagine it. Yes it does sound crazy in the conventional way of thinking. But those are your ideas and beliefs about love, someone with your mindset will never truly understand.