[Ask a Guy] Look ma, no hands!

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  1. Barbwire

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    When you are getting a BJ do you prefer your woman to use her hands on your shaft as well as her mouth or do you prefer a hands-free blowjob?
     
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    Oh, definately hands!!:tup
    There's nothing like getting your ass, balls and shaft caressed by a girl's hands while your getting a blowjob....:slong
    It's the same with eating pussy.....I can't eat pussy without using my hands to play with a woman's labia, stroke the inside of her thighs or just hold her hood back a little while I glide my tongue past her clit......:naughtydance
     
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    Gotta have hands involved. No questions about it. Hands help and really bring out a good BJ. Unless the person is amazing with only their mouth, they need the hands.
     
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    Combination of both. Holding and stroking the cock while sucking on the head is great. But then let go and take it deeper in mouth also.
     
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    Yep, hands can do a lot of good things. But I won't complain either way.
     
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    The reason I asked is, my husband seems to like it best when I just use my mouth on his cock and use my hands on his ass/hips to pull him deeper into my mouth. When I use my hand to stoke him I don't get the same reaction as when it's all mouth. I was just wondering what other men prefer.

    Also, I have no problem deepthroating him so don't really see the need to stroke his shaft with my hand unless I have to come up for air at some point.



     
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    I don't care what kind of attention I were getting - it's all good!
     
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    i think it depends on the woman.my wife knows how to use her hands while giving me a bj.but i have had a girlfriend in the past that it felt like she was trying to rip it off(but was amazing with no hands).
     
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    I prefer her to use them. It keeps things interesting for me becasue she can work m shaft alot more with hands and mouth than just her mouth.
     
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    I like to mix it up a bit. It keeps things interesting for both on us. On some occasions I may use my hands a lot while licking his balls or sucking on his knob. Other times I like to guide his hips while he fucks my mouth. I've never had any complaints either way and when I ask him what he prefers he tells me I'm the best regardless.
     
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    On hand on shaft, one hand cupped on balls.
    I cannot image any other answer.
     
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    I'm happy as long as I don't have to use MY hands!
     
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    Northside, you crack me up, man! :lol

    I was talking to my husband about this topic last night and he says it's not that he doesn't like me to use my hands on his cock while I'm blowing him, he just really enjoys watching me down his cock to the short hairs because he never had a woman do that to him before. He's never had a woman so aggressively pull his hips into her mouth just begging for a scull fuck before he met me.
     
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    I like having the hands wander other places while feeling a tongue and warm wet mouth around my cock
     
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    My Bunnie usually uses her hands on other sensitive parts of my body, particularly my nipples, when she is sucking me, and I love that. I certainly do not complain about her hands on my cock, but I like it when her hands are feeling me up all over while she sucks.
     
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    I like her to alternate actually. My G/F (used to) have a way of using her tongue on the very tip while stroking me that drove me insane!!! Then if she added a little prostate massage I'd make Old Faithful look sick! LOL (Dang, now I'm getting horny! LOL)
     
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    I like having the hands wander other places when my hard and longue cocke is inside wet and warm mouth
     
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    CL I am so glad you asked that today because I was about to. I am going on a sex fantasy weekend and really am new again giving blow jobs.
    Northside I agree I dont want him to have to touch his cock, that would make me feel inadequate if I was trying to really get him off with my mouth. I am going to explore past his balls this weekend. I am so excited
     
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    mouth and hand.that is what i like.
     
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    My hands roam.....on his cock....his nipples..his stomach...his ass...his balls....back to his cock....lol