look at porn while dating a girl?

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  1. Atilla

    Atilla New Member

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    Is it a good thing to look at porn while dating a girl?
    Last Girl that i dated broke all my dvds..:bow
     
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    While on the date? No you should pay attention to her ;) (joke)

    It doesn't bother me if my other half looks at porn, but I know some women don't like it.
     
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    My girlfriend i've been with for a year almost knows i look at porn, isn't flattered that I get off to other women, but she doesn't really mind, or so she says.
     
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    what about if she look at porn. Would you mind.?
     
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    You know, the fun thing is looking at it together. :)
     
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    my girlfriend doesn't know that i look at porn.
    i feel bad about it and i try to stop.
    but when i get that urge and she isn't there i gotta do somethin.
     
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    you should have dumped her the second she touched them--porn is healthy!
     
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    hell yes, she looked at it too .............. we were very open bout what we looked at
     
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    Best thing ever, head while watching porn... Seriously, its cool, if she says its not, she needs to grow up and watch some porn.
     
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    Umm, I am 41 and it wasn't until just last year that I was comfortable with watching porn with my husband. I don't see anything wrong with watching porn, but don't expect your woman to be into it just because you are.
     
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    ha ha ha its really funny
     
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    Wow dumping a partner because they are not into watching porn....is this the new trend ....
    qustions to ask before first date
    Do you watch porn ?
    No i do not watch porn
    Well im gone i have to find a female that does before i could think about loving her.......

    It doesnt matter if your into watching porn and the other partner isnt then, that shouldnt be a problem, theres more to a relationship than porn, yes its a great way for many to get off to..
    If your partner is happy with this idea perhaps this is a better way, film her ( with her consent ) pleasuring herself, in turn let her film you doing the same , each of you keeps a copy, so when you feel the need, use the footage of her , that way it is porn in a sense but of her. also maybe a film of both of you making love or fucking depending.. ( there are drawbacks to this sort of situation though, incase of breaking up. )
    just an idea..

    TBH i would much rather watch a lover of mine on film when she is not around than watching porn ( if she wasnt into watching porn that is )
     
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    I look at porn and my girlfriend doesnt approve, i think if she was around everyday then i wouldnt but theres time when your horny and you get carried away XD
     
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    My hubby and I have watched porn together for 27 years, as long as your both comfortable with it, I can't see a problem.
     
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    I think the main thing here is honesty. It is not good to do things that you know your partner would not want you to do and then lie or cover it up. A general rule of thumb to go by is, "would she feel bad if she knew?" If you really love someone, you don't want them to feel bad, right?

    Some women are ok with it, some aren't. Some can be convinced to be ok with it, some can't... Being open and honest about it can be a step in the right direction... for example, sharing your porn collection with your partner can be good. If she knows what you are looking at, and has looked at it (and enjoyed it!) herself, then there is an atmosphere of mutal trust. If she finds out later that you have been lying to her, that may carry the same kind of emotional reaction as finding out you have been cheating... it could hurt her deeply and make her lose trust in you.

    Then again, there is the question of whether a partner has the right to stop you from doing something that is a healthy outlet for sexual tension (without actually cheating).
     
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    I really believe that most married couples
    do watch porn from time to time, It's part of the variety of
    married life.
    But
    Watching porn while on a date is expecting to much.
    Dating is all about finding out what each other are all about
    And if you need to watch porn then i would say their
    is something drastically wrong.

    Hiker:sf
     
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    seems like most chicks dig it as much as guys.:brow try this get a new girl friend this time one with her own collection of dvds.cp
     
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    I think the problem girls have witheir boyfriends watching porn is the thought of them getting off to the girls in the video, I'd like to think that you can see why we'd find this insulting...
     
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    I don't think a guy should be watching porn if the girl is willing to have sex with him and if she doesn't approve.. and a married man.. watching porn..o.o without his wife..seems wrong to me.. i'd go to a strip club with my man lol
     
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    Did you sue or bitch slap her? or say "Bish, buy me new DVDs.. you're not the one who paid of them and if she didn't want me watching em just say so.." o.o i'd cry..if someone broke something i spent money on.. I had to stop myself from slapping myself when she tore my favorite book..x.x i cried.