I find myself longing for something that I can't have and I just need a place to come and vent about it, so here goes... My husband suffers from PE & ED. Even with both of those conditions, my husband and I have a pretty satisfying sex life together but, the one thing that I find myself really missing is having penis in vagina (PIV) intercourse for more than 3 minutes. We've done our best to work around the PE. More often than not, we incorporate toys during our sessions, usually a dildo and/or vibe. There are times when either my husband or myself uses a dildo on me for up to 45 minutes at a time. I really enjoy the feeling of being pumped, especially after I have an orgasm and sometimes I am able to orgasm again just from the thrusting. I have never been able to have an orgasm from my husband thrusting into me because I don't have time to before he ejaculates. Sometimes I masturbate almost to the point of coming then have him penetrate, but it breaks my groove so to speak and I can't orgasm once he's in. Judging by what a dildo can do for me I really think that my husband's cock could do the same, should it be able too. It is frustrating for both of us and a long time ago hubby talked about getting strapon penis extender type of thing but I'm not after the feel of manmade materials. What I crave is living, throbbing, hot cock.