longevity tips

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  1. Aj`

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    sorta embaressing topic but any of you guys out there have tips for ... lasting longer. Heres the story

    My birthday was last week and my gf and i spent the whole day together, now we havent been having sex for very long but we both pretty much love doing it :D .

    Anyway on my bd we had sex before i went to class, and then 7 more times throughout the day, its like we would do something, then go back to my room and go at it for a bit, usually multiple times. Anyway i know that when guys first start they arent supposed to last very long and i was actually pretty proud of myself to be able to go 8 times in a day ( im not joking )

    But i never could last very long, i mean like 10 min tops. Will i get better with time or what, i want her to orgasm dangit !!!! but im kinda a newb so im lookin for the tips , thx.
     
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    Well 10 minutes ain't too bad if you're really pounding away. But try changing positions when you think you're getting close. You can keep going for a lot longer that way, and you'll also become more inventive the more you try different techniques.
     
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    HardRocker is bang-on. (Pardon the pun) Unless we're somewhat pressed for time, my wife and I will switch positions several times, going maybe 5-10 minutes per position. But we don't usually get into those positions until after an hour or two of oral and/or manual stimulation. If you want to give her an orgasm, get your head down there between her legs and take your time. Ordinarily that's the best way to give a woman an orgasm. I've given a couple women over two dozen orgasms orally and never gotten ANY for myself. (After that many, they're too wasted to do anything, but after they've rested awhile it's payback time.)
     
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    I've a bit of experience in that raquet. My fiance and I used to only see each other once to twice a week. Once we got to see each other, we had sex like bunnies, and went at it 7-10 times in a day. At first, I couldn't orgasm, but after awhile, I kind of trained my body to react in a more timely manner. Even though he gave my PLENTY of manual and oral stimulation, I just couldn't durning sex, which to me is sad, because having an orgasm is something I like to share with the other person...So, I eventually just started having orgasms every time we went at it, even if it wasn't for very long.
     
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    she just isnt real comfortable with oral stuff... but ill see what i can do and we shall see if she changes her mind :phat :cool
     
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