Long-distance sex?

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by CaramelSagwa, Dec 8, 2011.

  1. CaramelSagwa

    CaramelSagwa New Member

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    Hi, I'm new here and I have a question. Any advice is appreciated. I am a college student and my boyfriend is too. School is the reason we are 5 hours apart and we can only see each other twice a month for a weekend. Well, we sex it up as much as possible when we are together... But still it's hard when we are apart. Emotionally, but sexually as well.

    We do sexy photos back and forth and sexting... We have also done skype sex, but I told him that it doesn't do much for me. I basically just lie down with the laptop at my ankles so he can see what I'm doing... But I think I'd enjoy it more if I could watch him. Well, we haven't done that since I told him my opinion...

    lol. Anyway. Any advice or your own story about long-distance relationships? How do you cope not touching the other person? It's especially hard since both of us enjoy sex a lot.

    Thank youuuuu! :eyes
     
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    You can skype both ways... Watch him rub himself, too
     
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    We try. But either I can't see him or he can't see me. It's hard to position it right.
     
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    MrCuddly New Member

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    Get external web cams so you don't have to position anything but the cameras and you can watch the video in a good position.
     
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    I second this. They're pretty inexpensive, and plug in to a usb drive. Plug and play, baby!

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    Yeah my boyfriend thought of that... I think we will do that. Thanks!
     
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    Usb webcams work great for some dual pleasuring! :D
     
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    Sorry if this has no relevance anymore since it looks like you have a solution. I've had 2 long distance relationships due to deployments, the military owns me so I can't go home whenever I want to and I sure can't skype on military property like that. The first one didn't work. The second one was for a couple months and communication sucks so I pretty much just kept myself really busy all the time and I noticed when I was busy I didn't think about it as much and the time went by faster. No idea if this helps you at all but this is just what I did.
     
  9. Paula

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    mmmhhh....webcam can help, but is not allways enough.

    Fantasy sometimes works better
     
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    I agree with the "fantasy" I tried a few times, but became all distracted by the techno-stuff. Sexting and photo swop worked for me :)
     
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    My ex husband and I used to use a webcam whenever he was away. It made things easier.
     
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    yeah its good ..to be intouch with our dears and nears through webcam and all...i too chat with friends like this..do u have yahoo id dear??