Long distance relationships

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  1. macker

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    My gf and I have recently had to become long distance. Curious about others experiences. Things such as intimacy, trust, conveying feelings, making her feel special, etc.
     
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    One word "frustrating"
     
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    My experience with a long distance relationship has been great, frustrating, wonderful, awful, at times we love each other and at times we hate each other ...
    Sigh, I want to touch her.
     
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    GF and I have been in different countries for almost a year but we did meet up three times in between.
    We talk multiple times daily and use text all trough the day to keep connected.
    A bit of cyber sex but we are still going strong with 3 months to go before we get together again
    It all depends on how strong and enduring your relationship is and if you really want to put in the effort of keeping it alive.
     
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    Thanks for the encouraging post! Definitely expecting the frustration, but hoping for the best.
     
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    If it works for you, wow!

    The only reason I share my place with a man is to have male scent, body and particularly a cock nearby. Therefore, I don't do long distance. The world is full of interesting men, many with the kind of body that arouses me. If the man I'm currently with has to be far for more than, say 3 months (arbitrary number), I get a full replacement.

    When he's back, if we both want, we can get back together.

    That's good for both of us. While we're far, I don't want him feeling guilty, or anything on those lines while flirting and having sex with other women. And I wouldn't want a man not fucking for so long. Sex is important for one's wellbeing. I don't like masturbation.
     
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    So a man is good for his scent and his cock. I feel so used! o_O I don't know, I think if you believe it's someone you have a solid future with, you can't put a "3 month" limit. Just a thought...
     
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    I prefer the pause and resume approach, but that's just me.

    We're certainly all more than scent and genitals, of course. But I'm not one who friend zones my man. I have male friends. The one I've chosen as a mate, and I mean sex, is different from the pack because of the sexual bit. Sex can only happen if we're close.

    Perhaps my problem is that I don't like masturbation.
     
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    I'm not sure how you "pause" love but maybe that's the romantic in me. Thanks for your thoughts.
     
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    Been there, seen it many times, both me and my current GF had long distance relationships. None lasted, then we met eachother and live not even 20 minutes appart.
     
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    I like my men close, so I don't think I could do it, I would imagine some could I suppose.
     
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    never been in a long distance relationship.
    Leah goes away for days at a time because of her job and I go crazy
    I couldn't do it,I'd find a way we could be together
     
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    Mr Z and i have had to become long distance previously in our relationship.At first it was hard especially because his roommates were two women so the thought of a crazy FMF threesome was always on my mind. But once i stopped over thinking everything it was all good. We would talk constantly, video chat, be intimate over the phone and online, send each other letters in the mail and visit each other as much as often. Luckily for us it was only 6 months but trust is such an important aspect and we completely trust each other now and i think the long distance contributed vastly to that.
     
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    FaceTime is a lifesaver.
     
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