I have been dating a guy for three months and now I have moved abroad with my family, he is six years older than me and I already know that I love him, we email nearly every day and talk on phone when we can. Before I left we said that if we ever met anyone else then we would tell the other person. He is not able to visit me until January, and Im worried that he will find someone else. Also, we have talked generally about marriage and kids, and I found out he is infertile, like, 100% NO KIDS. I can tell that he loves me more than I love him, because he is older so knows when he has found "the one" but I havent had enough relationships to know this yet. Do you have to have had lots of partners to know when youve found "the one"? Is there such a thing? I have always wanted kids, should I sacrifice this for him? We talked about adopting butI really want to "carry" a child and feel it grow inside me. Please give me some advice Im so confused??