lip service for women and those who love them

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by sweet melissa, May 17, 2007.

  1. sweet melissa

    sweet melissa New Member

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    In the adult media forum entitled "check out her lips", Enthusiast and Kronnie posted some pictures of women with large labia. Being one of those blessed, or cursed depending on one's outlook, with similar labia, I had to respond. But I think this is a more appropriate forum.
    I never saw another girl's cunt until I started secondary school, which for me was residential, so many of us saw each other naked in the shower ETC. At that time, fourteen years old, I thought I was a freak because my pussy was unlike most of the other girls. They couldn't help but notice it either and before long were making fun of me. Good natured fun it must be said, but it left an impact on me and made me insecure and self conscious for years. For a long time when having sex, I'd keep the lights out, and I'd stay dressed until the last minute so my lover couldn't see my "wierd" cunt. As time went on and I became more aware of other women with the same beautiful lips as I had, I became more confident and comfortable with myself.
    Unfortunately, in the meantime I had my whole leg and belly tattood to distract wandering eyes from the "freakeshness" of what I would later learn was a beautiful part of my womanhood. Now, the more naked women I have the pleasure of looking at, the more I realize how normal and beautiful ALL pussies are regardless of their size or shape.
     
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    I agree Melissa. I am so tired of looking at what I call "porn star pussies" because that's not what everyone really looks like. It's nice to see those pics posted of what "normal pussies" look like. They are all beautiful and unique in their own way. :)
     
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    Right on Melissa. It is horrible how mean kids are. It is wonderful to see you have came to grips and have learned to love yourself just exactly the way you are. Like the previous poster noted, that whole porn look, does cause a perception of beautiful to become a bit distorted. I am not knocking down porn as I love watching it, but it would be nice to see more of a variety of different pussies or what not.
     
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    I too am blessed with flappers. I used to be quite self-conscious of them, having only seen a naked woman while thumbing through my brother's Penthouse and Playboys.

    When I was, I dunno, I think 23 or so, I mentioned that I didn't like my pussy to a guy friend of mine. He asked why and I told him. He told me that he had seen a lot of pussies in his day, and that lips came in all sizes.

    Recently, actually just since I've joined this forum, I have heard guys say they like big lips and love sucking on them. It had never occured to me that such a thing could be pleasureable for a man, as I don't have a lot of feeling in them and don't make a fuss when my hubby draws them into his mouth.

    So, now I am ok with how my pussy looks. I am happy to see photographic proof posted here on the forum that it is "normal", just like everybody else's. What a load off my mind. :cool

     
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    Mel i hope you didnt take those pictures as an offence ....i certainly didnt mean it that way..for me personaly i would be overly happy kissing licking and sucking pretty much any females pussy....as i d love the taste the feel and the sheer wetness, and the warmth as well.

    I have never yurned down any female i have been with because they may not or may have had big or small lips...

    And that isnt meant as bad either.
    I love and adore women of all shapes and sizes..

    I would be friends with any female on the planet..i may not be willing to have a relationship or have sex with any female though..
    If that makes any sense hehe
     
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    No Kronnie, the photos are great, and who would've known they be the start of some great dialog between women who, had they not seen those photos, whould have never opened up. (sorry about the pun) about them. Growing up, I had no idea that women had feelings about how their pussies looked. It's great that we are now at a time when we can love and appreciate our cunts and cocks in all their splendor and all their forms.
    The more we're exposed to all the shapes and sizes or our organs; breasts pussies, asses and cocks, the more we, men and women, can take CL's comment a little further and say... What a load off 'OUR' mind.
     
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    Well to me all pussies/cunts/vaginas all looks extremly gorgeous to me ( except a very rare few.)

    But for cocks ( my opinion ) is i prefer if im going to look at them, to be long thick and extremly hard.
    Just my preferance lol..

    Breasts tiny small, average large or very large all look sweet and touchable to me..I totaly love the female form in many different shapes and sizes.

    And for you females that have huge pussy lips or small They all looks extremly playable to me.....
    Take my time kissing all of them hehehe
     
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    One thing I love to do... (as my wife has some moderate sized lips) is that when i'm going down on her, I turn my head to about a 90 deg. and take as much of her lips in my mouth as I can. I then flick them at the same time with my tongue.
    She really likes this and I enjoy it as well.
    If she had no lips (like some of my ex's) it wasn't all that interesting.
    it's like having another part of her anatomy that I can play with and tease her with.
    plus... there is nothing like turning her on while she has on her paties then sliding my fingers down and spreading her lips to feel how wet and hot she is.

    ok... off my soapbox.
    Just understand.
    the female anatomy is every mans playground.
    the more diverse and unique it is, the more enjoyable you are and the more you add to the experience.
     
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    I couldn't believe when I heard that there was a cosmetic procedure for women to have their labia 'trimmed'. Fair enough if it's for a medical reason but as a purely cosmetic procedure it saddens me. Cosmetic breast augmentation has always saddened me but I could always understand there was a large demand for it. Labia ops seem to be creating a problem that doesn't exist for many women (although obviously from reading this thread there is a concern for some women) by telling them that small, perfectly symetrical labia are more desirable.

    I think you'd stuggle to find many people who would care about their partner's labia size. Most pussies really are beautiful.
     
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    i 100% agree with everything said here.

    every part of the female body is amazing, and i am turned on regardless of breast or pussy lip size.
     
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    I have to add some comments on this topic. I have NEVER seen an ugly pussy not do I consider them pretty or ugly. They are all BEAUTIFUL and if part of a woman with a great personality, spirit and inner beauty, I wouldn't care if the lips hung to her thighs! You knwo how women say they don;t want to see a pic of just a dick, they want to see all the guy? That is how I feel about a woman. It's all about the total package whether it has hair or no hair, big lips, no lips, exposed clit etc. A great hot crotch means nothing if between the legs of a bitchy woman. Furthermore, nearly ALL woman have some degree of beauty, inner or external. Some forms beauty is more broadly recognized than others. The only reason I even quailfy that by saying NEARLY is because some women, like some men, clearly have no regard for their body and some their personality. If they have no regard for it, why should I appreciate it.
     
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    A couple of years ago, I saw a show on TV called Dr. 90210 where one of the plastic surgeons was doing just such an operation on a teenage girl, with enthusiastic support from mom.(there's a surprise, it was in Beverly Hills) I can't remember why, except that she didn't like the looks of her labia and they were making her uncomfortable when she wore jeans. Then there was another episode in which a doctor made them the same size because one hung lower than the other. I guess he never talked to other guys about how their balls hang.
    Cosmetic breast augmentation concerns me too. Although that's something I could use a lot of, there isn't enough silicone/saline in the world to make me a C cup. I'm just not into having it done to please anyone else. I guess what god left off me above my waist, he more than compensated me for below it.
     
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    I agree with you girl.. I could never go under the knife unless it was medically necessary. Just my opinion.
     
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    Thats cause your too smart to mess with God already made perfect.
     
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    Awwwwwwwwwww!! :) :) :)
     
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    Ok, so as usual, I have to flip the coin here. Having grown up with a physical imbalance that made me feel self-conscious to the point of crippling me emotionally, if I had a daughter that had a similar problem I would be more than happy to try to fix what was tearing at her self esteem.

    Unless you have lived with a defect, you do not know what it is like. I do live with one, and I still want to cry when I see my naked image in the mirror. It is a contant battle to cover my flaw and I am forever looking in the mirror hoping the charade is still holding.

    Sometimes plastic surgery does more than make you look better, sometimes it makes you have the confidence not to look at yourself at all.
     
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    I'll add a few words about the chest. I couldn't care less how small a woman's chest is. Some of the sexiest women I have ever seen were, like, 32A cups and some of the least sexy women I have seen were D cups. It's not consistent but sexy women come in all sizes and shapes. It's all how you carry yourself, the confidence you exude. Some of the women with nice small ones have a nice thin healthy body that looks perfect with small tits. I always say small ones make me feel young again because they remind me of those years ago days with young women. It's all about the overall package internally and externally!
     
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    I could understand that. :)