Hi guys,I'm new here.I'm hoping to find some advice when dealing with my boyfriend. I know sex slows down when you are with some one a while,but we went from having great sex a lot to him not even being able to even get hard.:ugh He is only in his early thirties. We have ruled out physical issues.He had a full check up,testosterone and all that, and the doc said he was fine.He told him it was psychological and gave him Cialis,and that works really great. The problem though,is that whenever we try to have sex without it,it is a disaster.Usually we start making out and things start getting hot,but as soon as it is time to either have sex or give him a blow job he goes limp.Like,no matter what I do he just won't get hard. Other times,we will just be laying there watching a movie or something and he will ask me if I want to have sex. I say yes,then he can't get it up.Then I wonder why he asked me at all if he wasn't even hard and it is frustrating. I have honestly NEVER had this problem before with any of the other guys I have been with,so I don't know what to do.I have been told I'm pretty attractive,but this makes me doubt myself and doubt how much he wants me.As I said,in the beginning he never had this problem. He says that it is not me and he just wants it to happen so much that he gets too anxious.He says he starts getting overheated.He can't take cialis every time we have sex,so if anyone has advice on this,it would help so much! Also,I'm certain he is not cheating as he spends all his time at home.So that is not a possibly.