lights on or off?

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  1. nurseharley

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    i've been surprised by the amount of people who don't have sex with the lights on! i always thought it was the only way to go.

    so, do you prefer lights on or lights off?

    for me lights should always be on, at least dimly.
     
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    Exactly.. My estimate is three candles worth is about perfect.
     
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    I like dim light most of the time. The bathroom light on with the door mostly closed does very well.
     
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    Lights on, if you ask me. :)

    Some people are so shy they do it with no lights AND under their blankets. My impression is that this used to be more common earlier. I think I would have trouble getting turned on in such a situation. :ugh
     
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    Lights on. I like to be able to see, as well as touch/feel.
     
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    LIGHTS ON. Love seeing my women naked and doing the nasty...
     
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    I like the lights on, the wife lights off. Usually our room isn't completely dark even with the lights off
     
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    I like the lights on, she likes them off. We usually end up with some kind of light, but never as much as I would like.

    I just like to see everything.:D All of her squirms, twitches, twists, the way she arches her back, and the way her tits bounce is what really gets me going.
     
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    For years it was usually lights off if at night. Morning sex, which was rare was different.
    Then in later years she preferred to have a small light on. Didn't matter much to me.
     
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    Lights on. We both like to see.
     
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    ON baby, ON!
    Seeing what I touch and put my lips on.
    A bit of playfulness with lights off doesn't hurt though.
     
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    We usually have sex in the daytime so lights are irrelevant to us.
     
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    ON, I like to see what I am eating!:D Her, usually lights off. :(
     
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    It depends on the person I am with. But lately when I do have sex with my lover it is during the day. :lol
     
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    I like them on, but she likes them off. My wife is afraid I'll notice an imperfection, but I'm too busy noticing all the good stuff. In the end I guess that means we like them off.
     
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    Always lights on and mirrors or cam for us.
     
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    when we first started she was self conscious so it was lights off. now she doesnt care, but its mostly lights off but candle light or small lamp wouldnt hurt.
     
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    I like to see also, and lots of mirrors make it even better!
     
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    Always lights on but not too bright or glaring. Mirrors can be a lot of fun too.