Lights on or lights off

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by danrb007, Jul 13, 2014.

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    I want bright lights,I want to see where its going!!!
     
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    how about strobe lights :)

    I like lights on I want to see everything
     
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    Doesn't this matter what time of day it is? My client today was laid naked in her conservatory with the sunlight pouring through the windows at midday, her body glistening with massage oil, and no need for a light on to see what I was doing to her next. But generally I do like some light, preferably soft lighting or candles, not bright lights.
     
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    Off!!!!!! I am super self conciconscious. Plus, I think i make weird faces during sex.
     
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    Makes no difference...i can see pretty well in the dark
     
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    Initially I liked the lights on, or daytime. Now, definitely lights off!
     
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    Flashlight under the covers
    :)
     
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    Lights on but dim. Natural light is fine, dark sucks because to me sex is very visual the more I can see the better it is.
    I'm guessing for many people it's a self confidence thing.
     
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    On On On
    I don't want to miss anything!

    Facial expressions, Eye contact, body reactions, Etc etc etc.

    It is all awesome!!!!
     
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    low lights or candles is sexiest, unless taking hot pics/ video for my SF community! ;-)
     
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    any kind of low lighting is cool, but what I really love is only the pale glow from the television painting her naked body. Something about that faint breath of light and the way the changing shades swim over naked skin excites me
     
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    definitely lights on, love being able to see everything! so much more hot and fun!!
     
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    Mood lighting :rolleyes:
     
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    definitely on
     
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    On I want to see lights on. It's hard to Cum in there mouth when you can't see it.
     
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    Were a lights on couple as we can best appreciate the beauty in the human bodies ................. and what is being done with it ...............
     
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    Definitely on.

    Doesn’t matter, oral on her or me, penetrating her or me, we both love to see the action happening
     
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    On for sure... I love looking at my partner too much during.
     
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    I personally prefer some soft, muted lighted as I love the visual aspect when I make love to a woman, especially when I am pleasuring her pussy or asshole with my mouth.
     
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    Lights on and camera rolling! :cool: