Lights on or lights off

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  1. danrb007

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    Do you prefer the lights on or the lights off when having sex? I like the lights on. I love watching her reactions and my cock sliding in and out of her mouth or pussy.
     
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    Candles please.

    xx
     
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    Depends on the strength of the light ...................... and the woman :rolleyes:;););)
     
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    Like the light on so I can see evrything or even better candle light
     
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    dimmed please :)
     
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    Soft light, candles, or daylight. A glaring light on the ceiling, for example, is a big turn-off for me. The only time we do it in real darkness is if we wake up in the middle of the night and reach out for each other and use the touch method and never get around to turning the lights on. That can be very sensual, but I usually do prefer to see everything. Sex is worth watching.

    Then, of course, there are blindfolds...
     
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    We prefer low light. Candles are good as well.
     
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    I'm indifferent most the time. Sex isn't planned so if there's a light on, it stays on, if the lights off, it stays off. If I had to choose though, I'd go for low light seeing as it leaves a nice glow on different parts of the body in different positions.
     
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    That's what I was going to say.
     
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    About the lights or Ginger? :)
    Mind you it appears to already have happened to him (sorry mate jesting :p)
     
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    Pretty much this.
     
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    Low light or candles
     
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    Yep. Dim lights , candles , a fire place , good moon light. I have had some good sex in bright light so it's not bad...... I'm more worried about bright light and silence...it can get awkward. Is it just me?
     
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    I'd say anything other than harsh fluorescent lights... but if the mood struck I wouldn't give a damn about the lighting. :p
     
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    I am not sure if I have ever noticed. Actually I would prefer some light but not a lot.
     
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    My wife is a lights off, and I am a lights on - so we compromise. I also have to take my glasses off when I go down on her, but usually put them back on if she is giving me a blow job or I am fucking her while she is on her knees. Sex for me is about stimulating of the senses; I don't leave out sight.
     
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    We've done it both ways, I like some light to watch her pleasure as I please her, either orally or sliding in her, she prefers darker, I just try for mornings with the sun peaking through the shades
     
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    We also love middle of the day sex. Natural light with the windows open in the bedroom.
     
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    Some nice mood lighting...nothing too bright, nothing too dim.
     
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    Dim lights please...
     
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