During cybersex (chat messaging), most of what my SO and I "do", we would do in real life. However, twice he has asked me if I wanted to be his 'Mama cat' and lick him clean after we fuck. The first time, I played along (after all cybersex is filled with fantasies) but the second time I said "No, I just want to lie here in your arms." Which he was cool with. He didn't say anything one way or the other as a reply. I'm interested to know if any other couples do this? I've never experienced it before.