Hey all, this is a long issue but I really hope someone can help me out with this...I'm 23 and shouldn't have to be dealing with this already. This past summer my girlfriend and I of more than 5 years have been having some serious sexual problems. These problems stem from the fact that I can't maintain an erection when we try to have sex 2/3 times a week. I just either can't get into the mood or keep it up because I over think it. The one time we do have sex and I'm aroused, it's amazing but it's only after waiting 4 days or longer (giving time for my libido to build) Then the next day or the day after that I usually have performance issues. I just went to the Doctor's today and he prescribed Celexa since this "stage-fright" I have seems to be tied to some mild social anxiety that I've had for some time. So I started taking the Celexa yesterday and got a list of behaviorist specialists in my area that I could set up an appointment with. And obviously I didn't expect results right away, but of course I had issues with her last night. I just kept over-thinking things and could not stay aroused. I wasn't into it at all. Now I've read online about a side effect with Celexa - loss of libido. Why would my Doctor prescribe that to me if that's what my problem is in the first place? I need some serious help. This summer has been really trying for my gf and I. I don't want to lose her but I feel us getting more distant. And honestly, she shouldn't have to put up with this. It's not that she's unattractive to me or that I'm bored with her because like I said, that one night of sex that's flaccid-free is awesome. Please help!