[Ask a Girl] Letting girl down easy?

Discussion in 'Ask a Guy/Girl' started by Divzro, Oct 17, 2010.

  1. Divzro

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    Ok, so hers my issue. My wife is bi-curious and her best friend has a bit of a crush on me. I know living the hard life right?

    Well her best friend is my friends girl friend.

    They are starting to make threesome jokes, and ask me about it. I know where there going, but I have to say no. Is there a way out of this without making things wierd?
     
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    Just tell them you aren't interested in that but are you will to watch why they play.
     
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    This situation would appear to have enormous potential for disaster....:ugh
    I'd be inclinded to follow R2P's advice and look before you leap into something that could maybe have an adverse effect on your relationship:eyes
    There are so many variables here.....what does your friend have to say about this?.....is your wifes friend bisexual as well?
    I'd be treading very carefully here.....there's a lot to lose if it all goes to shit..:eyes
     
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    No means no. There isn't anything weird about saying "baby, I'm your husband and I don't have the same fantasy as most guys, I'm not comfortable with this. I'm sorry"