Let my wife fuck with a stranger for the first time

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    We have been married for 30 years. We had moderate sex. Now I am diabetic and my penis won't erect even with Viagara or Cialis. We both are in early sixties. She never had good orgasm and my penis is quite small.

    I love my wife and she loves me too. Recently I found two men which have 7.5" and 8.5" cocks. I want my wife to fuck with one of them and get satisfaction while I am watching and recording. My wife has not said yes to this.

    My question is If she agreed and fucked with one of them or may both at differents time. Will she continue to fuck with them? I am in a different city working.

    I don't want her to develop any relationship. Just for fun purpose only. She never slept with any man other than me. Please reply with your wise advice
     
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    She may but if it just sex it can be just that
     
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    what do you mean by " it can just that"
     
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    It can be just sex
     
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    Thank you. My question is will she continue to fuck with them when I am away without telling me? Thanks
     
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    She may but it is just sex
     
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    With all due respect, how would anybody here know whether she would continue to have sex with them? The two of you should sit down together, talk this out, and establish boundaries and specific rules before you start anything with other people.
     
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    You need so set the rules in advanced. This is only to happen when you are present and cannot happen when you are out of town for instance. If you guys can't agreee to some rules and boundaries I Wouk suggest it's not something I would go ahead with.,
     
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    Thanks for your comment. Yes we have to sit down lay rules. Will she get pain during her first sex with this men. Because their penis are quite large one is 7.5" other one is 8.5". You ladies can tell me.
     
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    Thanks for your advice. Yes we have to sit down lay rules. Will she get pain during her first sex with this men. Because their penis are quite large one is 7.5" other one is 8.5". You ladies can tell me.
     
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    I've been with my man for over 20 years. I fuck other men and it's just sex. Just sex. I have no intention of having an affair.

    But that's me. We don't know your wife. And we don't know these men you've chosen.

    If I can talk from experience, choosing men based on cock size is foolish. That's important, but their personalities is also of importance. Are they going to pursue an affair with your wife? Character is important. More than cock size.

    People talk about size queens in a negative way, but then they should be talking about size kings, because judging by these forums, men are the ones who really care about it.
     
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    Thanks for your comments. we are from east Indian culture. When I talk to my wife about this she sometimes says " I don't want to have another man in our marriage" I know she is not satisfied with my cock size. Because she has repeated many times my one is small and uncut. She has seen other men cock size from the internet. What do think shall I proceed with this or use sex toys instead? Please, advice. You seems to have lots of experience in this area.
     
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    Have to ever used mutual masturbation or oral sex with your wife?
    Even though you cannot achieve an erection, mutual masturbation or
    performing oral sex on each other can be quite satisfying.
     
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    Your culture is very different from mine, therefore, it's extra difficult to advise you. And I don't know you.

    I can only tell you what I think about it, for whatever it is worth.

    I don't think you should be choosing men for your lady. If you're OK with her fucking other people, tell her that and let her find men she wants to fuck, if that's what she wants.

    Another thought is about trust. Either you trust someone, or you don't. I trust my man 100%. So, I don't need to choose the women he fucks, nor to worry about him fucking them when it isn't ok for me. Because it always is ok for me. People fall out of love and lie and cheat, because that's human nature and shit happens, forgive my French. If one day he falls in love with another woman, so is life. It can happen with open couples, as well as with exclusive ones.

    You're asking total strangers from a different culture what your wife will do, or not. That's kind of a clue to how insecure you are about the whole thing.

    You should be talking to her. You should decide if you trust her.

    I fuck other people and "allow" my man the same freedom, not even because I trust him, but because his body isn't my property. Just like his brain.

    Is that your mind frame? If it is, then just acknowledge her freedom and let her do what she wants. Don't play pimp. Unless that's your fantasy. And I suspect it is.

    I mean no disrespect. Good luck.
     
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    I would do the same as you are thinking if I can't take care of business anymore then I would not stop her from being sexually satisfied but with that said you can give her plenty of orgasms giving her all the oral sex she could ever want.
    Time for a heart to heart you may find she is just fine no longer having intercourse but you will never know until you ask.

    Good luck
     
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    Thanks for your advice SENSLESS.
     
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    My wife's rule is she won't do anything with another guy unless I'm there. She came up with it and has been following it since.
     
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    I have my husband in a cage and I am sexually serviced once a month by my massage therapist. It has affected our marriage to the positive and the therapist is just that, a therapist. It is not love or cheating or another man, I don't even look at it as sex, it is just being serviced.
     
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    You have him in a cage? Can you explain what that means?
     
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    Be careful with this as it could lead to some serious damage to your marriage. Remember your wedding vows to each other!!

    It still boggles my mind how men can want their wives to screw other men. Ive had two married guys ask me to "service" their wives along with two other to do their girlfriends while they watch and I just don't "get it" at all. One of the above mentioned men was a co-worker of mine! No, I did not go through with it as I don't want to interfere with a marriage nor would I want to break my wife's heart by cheating.

    Unbelievable......
     
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