The other night, hubby was between my legs eating me and I told him to put his fingers in my pussy. He started to, and I said, "Get them wet, first." He licked them and then tried to shove them in without pulling my lips open first which can be quite uncomfortable for me if my lips aren't wet. I had to tell him to part them before he slid his fingers into me again. Once he got two fingers in, he just left them there, didn't move a muscle. After a few minutes, I had to say, "Fuck me with your fingers." He did for a couple of strokes and stopped again. It was so frustrating, I about screamed, but I didn't. I raised my hips towards his hand and he still didn't get it. It's amazing to me that I still have to tell him step by step what he needs to do to get me off. Am I wrong that when a woman asks a guy to finger her that the guy should know that means to not only insert the fingers into her vagina but to actually pump them in and out or at least move them around to stimulate the g-spot? Keep in mind we've been sleeping together for 14 years.