Synopsis: I'm a 29 year old male, who was a bit of a late bloomer sexually. My first experiences came at the age of 19, but was short lived and left me somewhat unsatisfied. I did not have sex again until 23 when I met and dated a girl for several months who also had a high sex drive. This is where i really developed and experimented for the first time and finally had my sexual needs met. But that relationship eventually folded, and despite a few sexual encounters over the next few years, my sex life was rather dry until I met my current girl...whose now my Fiancee' Her story: My Fiancee' was very sexually active growing up. Having her first experience at age 14 and continuing to be very active her whole life (now 27). Admittedly, at her peak (late teens), she'd do it sometimes 9x a day with her BFs. However like most women she really didn't get full enjoyment out of sex until she was in her early 20s. She is vastly more experienced than I, however because she got all that out of her system, she feels totally fulfilled sexually and is quite content with her current sex drive (which i would classify as average to slightly above average for women her age). That being said she is still a very sexual person...and sometimes downright kinky. I love this girl and plan on spending the rest of my life with her. We have an AMAZING sex life. My attraction to her is off the charts. We both agree that sex together is the best we've ever had. My problem: Bottom line, I want SEX more often than she does. This sounds like typical guy stuff, right? And it probably is, but I wanted to examine it within the context of our relationship. She thinks the reason I want it so much is because of my experience (or lack there of)...that I never got it out of my system early on like she did...and that i'm like a typical teenager in that respect. Personally I've always thought of myself as having a really high sex drive, and have some doubts that this will ever wear off completely...but perhaps she is right too. Typically we have sex 3-4 times per week. I would like to have sex atleast once daily...and wish every now and then for weekend long binges where we just stay in bed the whole time and really satisfy my appetite. I've been coping with her frequency rate by masterb*ting several times a week also. Part of my reason for doing this is to deplete my "stock" and increase my sexual endurance too. The more satisfaction I give her...the more satisfied I am too...theres no better feeling in the world IMHO. She may want quickies 9 times out of 10, but I still desire for every time to be a marathon. Her problem: She feels pressured because I'm always wanting it. To the point where it makes her feel guilty...that maybe she's not satisfying me. And she is concerned that after years together...I might be tempted to cheat on her because I still haven't gotten it out of my system and need more sex than she can give. Sometimes she wishes I had just been a man-wh*re at an earlier age and we wouldn't be in this situation. Surely I have no intentions of every cheating on my wife to be...but part of me does wonder if I'll ever fullfill this need? If I don't get it out of my system will I eventually become resentful and unhappy in marriage? I've seen numerous posts on these kinds of forums from men who never did lose their sexual appetite well into their 30s, 40s and 50s... Further issues: My lack of experience in serious relationships causes additional friction too, because I'm not always "tactful" about asking for sex. I'm getting better at this though...but she wishes I could just read her "signs" better and know when the time is right. I assure you this is no simply task...seems like everytime I ask its an inappropriate time! And though she's aware of how horny i always am...she's not very understanding to these needs whenever she's not in the mood too. No sex...fine...then how about considering alternative means of pleasing me when you're not feeling good or not in the mood?...BJs, HJs, or letting me masterb*te in her presence or w/ toys or whatever. But instead her attitude is indifferent when she's not horny too. And that is my biggest frustration. We are very open about our sex lives, and usually talk freely about it...but I need to find a way to gently tell her that without giving me extra attention, then my needs aren't being met. How should I do this? And has anyone had a similar scenario where two partners have very different levels of experience and one partner feels like they have to make-up for lost time? I don't know why I feel this way...its not like she is going anywhere...we are going to be together the rest of our lives...but I just can't get my fill. Also, it makes me sad to think my baby use to have such a high sex drive that she wanted to f*ck 9x a day...thinking about it really makes me wish she still had that drive, that we could have exhausted our appetites together...or if only we could have met earlier in life. We talked about that once though...and she really doubted whether her younger immature self would have stayed faithful to me. She needed to be in this place in her life to be open to true love and fully appreciate me on all levels. In the end we've met at the right point in our lives...completely ready to settle down with one another. Are these worthy concerns I have...or should I just get over it...deal with normal sexual fulfillment and hope that in time I get my fill? Maybe I'll realize that I've had enough sex, and just be happy I have such a beautiful and wonderful partner by my side.