Lasting Longer

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Snake21605, Mar 19, 2007.

  1. Snake21605

    Snake21605 New Member

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    OK all, I recently started to have intercourse. I have been sexually active for some time but not through intercourse until recently. I used to "last" longer but my ex wanted speedy action. I then taught myself to "speed things up". Now I am with someone who I plan to spend my life with. Anyway, I now can't last vey long, doing anything :mad . With intercourse I want to make the love last ofcourse. I tried "Mr. Prolong" and either I used it wrong or not enough because it worked for a while then BANG. It was like the feeling was there I just didnt feel it because out of no where I was ready to climax (it was weird). Anyway is there anything I can do to "last" longer. Creams, gels, exercises? I heard "Tantric" sex is a way of teaching your body...is that true?

    I will do anything, any help out there? :bow
     
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    Tantic sex is more than just intercourse, and for it to work your partner needs to be trained in Tantric too. Yes it helps men prolong ejaculation as long as he wishes to, but it takes two people to make Tantric work.
     
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    do you think that would be our best bet?
     
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    Tantric is planned sex, And in my book is worthless
    as I like spontaneous sex.
    Why not concentrate more on oral sex, Or just making love.
    And save the actual fucking for last.

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    that just it we dont "fuck", we "make love". I still can't last very long, even with oral....
     
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    My guess is if you taught yourself to do it fast,
    You could also teach yourself to slow down.

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    Hey Snake,

    Have you tried any herbal remedy? Ok this is probably going to sound like a cheap shot at selling some products from my store, however I run an online sex store and one of the products is called Golden Root. I seemed to be selling loads of it, but at the same time getting loads of questions so i tried it for myself.

    I was very surprised, not only will it help you last long, it also aids getting it up again after a little rest. Apparently does it by increasing the blod flow to the penis.

    Anyway thought it may be useful to you.

    Addi.
     
  8. SexyScorp

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    """"TANTRIC SEX is meditative, spontaneous and intimate lovemaking Through it you learn to prolong the act of making love and to channel, rather than dissipate. potent orgasmic energies moving through you, thereby raising the level of your consciousness. Tantra transports your sexuality from the plane of doing to the place of being. There is no goal in Tantric sex, only the present moment of perfect and harmonious union. Tantra teaches you to revere your sexual partner and to transform the act of sex into a sacrament of love"""".


    I havent had the chance to practise this physically only astrally....so far.....but I believe for anyone who is very much into intimacy and "soul love", this is a very worthwhile method of lovemaking...

    Of course...it doenst appeal to all...especially the wham bam thankyou mam type of approach...

    I would love to practise this....you get to really "feel" the person on a deeper and more profound level.....

    mmmm.....yeah.......:)
     
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    Hahaha! Yes. I second that.
     
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    I realize that you're a little young, but have you ever heard of beer dick? That might help you reach a happy medium if you don't overdo it.

    Wow I'm a terrible person.....and that was just a joke....sort of. :)

    Anyhow, there are tons of control gels out there and there are even control condoms out there (Trojan brand). Pornstars use them all the time. Your problem is a common one. Further internet browsing is advisable to determine what is best for you.

    Easy fix my friend.
     
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    Well, i never really read what else everone had to say about this so sorry if this is repetative. But for me right when i feel like im going to finish off i stop and just play with the girl just to keep them occupied. i stop for less then a min but still i can go like another 5-10mins after that so its worth the try till you can work your body back up to last longer.
     
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    Stopping occasionally works well for me too. Although sometimes just slowing down can also work.

    Orgasms are physiological, you need your mind to be in it to come. It you focus your mind on something non-sexual when you feel the tension building, it will take the edge off and give you as much time as you want. This works good for me because I get close to it when I'm only 10 minutes in, and then my girlfriend is like only half way at that point, so I just think about something non-sexual, like my to-do list for the next day--that will kill sexual tension instantly haha.
     
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    have tried that and it sure works (sometimes)
    But sometimes it just kills sex for me.
    But worth while to try and see if it will work.I

    Hiker:sf
     
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    Yea, gotta be careful on how involved you get into certain thoughts haha
     
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    Well sexy im not the wham bamm thankyou man....i dont do tantric, ibut i can last a long time, i do my upmost to pleasure and satisfy...and can go a good few times sexualy, so for me i dont see a need for tantric sex. maybe when im older and not able to last or pleasure very well ... then ill give it a go i guess.
     
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    Its about connecting on the soul level Kronnie

    So you would probably have to be with someone you had a soul connection with to fully benefit from it...

    :)


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    I wonder how people coped before this for thousands of years though....musy have been pure hell for all thouse billions of people that have lived from the start of mankind till tantric came about.....

    Are people unable to connect without this tantric i wonder ?