Hello all, I have a bit of a problem in my sex life. I am young, 21. My girlfriend being 20. When we have sex, generally she never orgasms. I feel like its me being the only one getting pleasure out of this. Half the time when I finger her, she says it hurts and then its just a complete turn off from there and kills the night. When we do foreplay right, she gets turned on enough to where she just wants me to stick it in! When I do, BAM and premature ejaculation within a few minutes. Any tips to lasting longer? Different condoms? Position? I want to pleasure her, and for her to not be bored. We are having a mini-alone vacation tomorrow and I want to make things wild and like never before for her. What can I do to make things last longer, and be enjoyable for her to keep wanting more! Also, was maybe considering any additional things I should get to help with turning her on. Maybe a scented candle? Ideas are appreciated. Thanks!