Last longer

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  1. Chris0123

    Chris0123 New Member

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    hey all. need some advice, im kinda struggling in the bed room with this current girl. im having problems lasting in bed. sometimes if we go like slow yeha i can probably last a good 10 mins but thats it, if we go hard and fast, which is the way i wished i could go all the time, the most is like 2mins or so.
    i never had this problem before in any relationship and its kinda starting to destroy everthing. need some advice please
     
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    There are durations quoted in various places on the Internet for thrusting intercourse , but a typical duration is around three to seven minutes, and married men seem to last longer at around five to ten minutes. It seems the more regular the sex, the longer men last. On the other hand, married men typically have condom-free sex, which is a lot more stimulating that wearing a raincoat.

    For me, I don't often go hard and fast because control becomes difficult. If I do, I slow down and recover sexual energy from time to time. Maybe sexual experience helping married men develop techniques of this sort are why we last a little longer.

    In any case you have typical durations, and I hope those solve your 'problem' and stop you feeling destroyed.
     
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    thanks, i guess its just hard coz the girlfriends partners have been able to last long, thus making me feel like i have to be like them, i also find it hard to try and go again, like im buggered after each attempt and i guess that is what annoys the girl the most. i have tried using rubbers to help last long and it does but the whole feeling is crap, as u all know and the girlfriend also hates them.
     
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    Well for one not all girls want their guy to last hours at a time. For 2 most porn actors cant last a good 5 mins, they just have multiple shoots. Third of all its probably because your thinking about it to much. Girls know it but guys dont, they dont care how long u can last with your penis. If you can finish with the mouth, you will keep your SO satisfied over and over again.

    Dont get caught up in the male ego man. "I banged her for like 3 hours man" hahaha w/e
     
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    all u need to do mate is to penertrate her and them when u are about to cum go slow and let a bit out and do this lds of times until u reach the point when u can last for like an hr or even more just like me.