Lap Dancing Clubs

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  1. Brad

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    Please share your experiences and opinions on this topic. I'm keen on both male and female perspectives:

    This week during a sales conference, I was persuaded to go to a lap dance club with my work friends and it was my first time. It was well past midnight following a restaurant meal and plenty to drink.

    My first dance was a sexy close up strip that lasted about 4 minutes. A great tease with no physical contact.

    Then the second dancer (strongly recommended by my workmates) was unbelieavably uninhibited!

    Once naked, her hands were rubbing my crotch to start with then she ground her naked groin to my trousers whilst straddling me! I could not believe it!

    If you are a bloke, have you visited such clubs? And do you rate them?

    If you are female, how would you feel about your male partner going to one? Would you be well annoyed or put it down to it being just a man's night out?

    I have to confess as a bloke that I have booked in for next year's sales conference!
     
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    I've never been the jealous type, even as a teen, I'd just chalk it up to a guys night out, have fun, more power to him, lol. My sister, on the other hand, considers it grounds for divorce. Go figure...
     
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    My wife actually took me to one in NYC a couple years ago. She sent two dancers over who did pretty much what Brad's did except they didn't touch my crotch. :ugh I was allowed to touch/hold their waist, hips, etc. while they were grinding away on my crotch. They also brushed their nips across my face a couple times. It was a turn on for me that my wife was watching with delight. I even sent one girl over to Rose to do her. I only wish I had not drank so much before we went. It was well past midnight also and we had been to several bars in Hell's Kitchen earlier. :ugh It was a good experience though. :brow
     
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    Ive been to a few of them near my home, most when I was single, those were pretty much "dive joints" some loose women that werent the types youd bring home to Mom. Sadly to say as well..most of the dancers werent very appealing physically...at least to me...
    I went to a place back in October...with my wifes blessing and some rules...me no touchy and feely...and no lap dances..which was fine with me,I dont need to spend big bucks when I have a sexy woman at home who will take care of me. I went with a friend who hadnt been to a strip club in years and who is in a terrible marriage, and we were both surprised...the women at this club were very very attractive, nice place as a strip club..clean...and safe as well....Id definitely go again but the next time if there is one Id bring my wife as well....
     
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    In Manhatten, I think they are pretty much on the 'up-and-up'.
    Thorn and I loved the experience together. The girls were sensual, and both of us enjoyed it.
    You MUST make sure you know the cost of the lap dances. They are VERY expensive. I think , in 3 hours, we spent about $400.00 not including drinks. (That would be real expensive bootie moves!!!! ) - but for one night in Times Square - getting a really hot and sexy evening - it's worth it!
    And those girls are very sexy. Soft - smooth - I touched them.... and yeah - it is very VERY good.
     
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    I think i would be too nervous to let my boyfriend go out to a strip club, especailly with some of the people he's friends with. However, if he let me tag along i would be fine with it because then i would know what he was doing.
    Maybe I have trust, or confidence issues. hmmm..
     
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    I don't mind my b/f going at all.As long as he has fun and comes home to me.He deserves to have fun and he would do the same for me.He goes only once a month or so with his friends on a guys night out.I can't expect to take the man out of him!lol
     
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    as a guy i see it as a waste of money, nothing is gonna happen and u can get pretty much same as porn
     
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